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tripppah
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 Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 4:30 am Post subject: Can I get your opinion please.? |
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| used to know a girl when I was a shorty (family friends) but we never used to actually speak to each other, but I used to go play with her younger brother a lot. 20 years later I saw her while I was overseas (we now in our late 20's). We went out to dinner and theatre to catch up. She told me when we were little she didn't speak to me as she didn't know what to talk to me about. Now we get along pretty well and we talked for hours - she told me about the past and what she been upto since. when I suggested I send her something when I got back as a thank you gift, we stopped at her place and she gave me a gift to take home. She hug me goodbye.I sent her books coz she reads and she went and told her family members. She snail mail me back to say how she enjoyed catching up with me. She sent me a magazine she was recently interviewed and photographed for about her unusual line of work.Should I fly over to her again, tell her I want her to have my babies or do I have to wine&dine more? |
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Simply>Molly<
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 4:38 am Post subject: |
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| Thats all cute.. but no u shouldnt go and tell her that you want her to have your babies.. you should go over coincidently and see her.. and see waht happens from there tell her how you feel but not the babies bit , as i think thats a bit too much.Good luck and all the best.Goo get her!! |
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Sugurx
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 4:38 am Post subject: |
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I think you should take this slower.. because she could just see you as a friend only.. and saying those words would be too much of an approach. i think you should talk to her some more and get to know her more, then when she least expects it, tell her that u like her in the most romantic subtle way.. i mean she likes to read right? So why not do something about that.. get to know her better.. then one day put a note inside a book that tells her everything then give her the book. Hope you make the right decision  |
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pooja
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 4:40 am Post subject: |
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| if you think that how much you both know each other is enough for you to start your marital life then propose marriage but if you doubt and want to give more time for the relation then go for wine and dine. |
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lollipop07
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 4:40 am Post subject: |
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| Wine and dine for about a year then ask her to move in then wait another year an dask her to marry youuu. aww that is so sweet |
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Cedric P
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 4:42 am Post subject: |
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| I would play it slow, but not too slow. You don't want to disrespect her and lose ehr for good, and you don't want to get put into that "friend" category. You need to let her know that you're feeling her without making her think you just want a quick piece. First of all, definitely ask her out again. Second of all, the date can be fun but not too much fun. You don't want her to think of you as just a "buddy". If you go to a movie, make it a chick flick. No action flicks. Those are for your friends. Dinner? Make it a dimmly lit place not IHOP. That's for your buddies after the club. Compliment her every chance you get. Hold doors, pull out chairs, etc. Let it be clear in her mind that when she's out with you its a "Date".After the scond or third date, if she's feeling you she will either make a move herself or give you a hint that you have the green light to make a move. You just gotta pay attention for the signal. |
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ken_spenz
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 4:46 am Post subject: |
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| tell her I want her to have my babies???? dude grow up.While your love story seems quite romantic..with this attitude you will ruin you chance. |
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Ardelia
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 4:54 am Post subject: |
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| Try to know her more. Be patient. Always stay in contact and show your interest on her likes and dislikes. Women definitely love to talk. So talk to her as often as possible. Be observative. Observe her gestures, mimics, looks. So you can understand what kind of emotional reactions she has to various situations. And the most important if you be observative then you can catch the right time for asking the ultimate question. |
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