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tripppah
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 Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:12 am Post subject: Can I get a girls point of view plz? |
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| used to know a girl when I was a shorty (family friends) but we never used to actually speak to each other, but I used to go play with her younger brother a lot. 20 years later I saw her while I was overseas (we now in our late 20's). We went out to dinner and theatre to catch up. She told me when we were little she didn't speak to me as she didn't know what to talk to me about. Now we get along pretty well and we talked for hours - she told me about the past and what she been upto since. when I suggested I send her something when I got back as a thank you gift, we stopped at her place and she gave me a gift to take home. She hug me goodbye.I sent her books coz she reads and she went and told her family members. She snail mail me back to say how she enjoyed catching up with me. She sent me a magazine she was recently interviewed and photographed for about her unusual line of work.Do I have to wine&dine more? Some advice please. |
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samone
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:16 am Post subject: |
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| yeah show her youre in it to win it |
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BK
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:17 am Post subject: |
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She's definitely into you, so if you want to keep her, then yes! Wine and dine more  Let her know that she is special, and she will reciprocate.Way to go, man |
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Maggie S
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:17 am Post subject: |
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| Give her attention if you are interested. Girls like to feel special. |
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Darlene C
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:18 am Post subject: |
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| What exactly are you asking? Wine and dine more for what? Are you wanting this to get further?..you didn't say. You didn't even say if you really liked her? Maybe you can edit your question and be more specific? |
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Luckeh
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:19 am Post subject: |
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| A hug usually just means friendship, but that is a good start seeing as you never really got to be good friends as children. That she sent you an actual letter shows she really is willing to put effort into keeping in contact with you, because it is much easier these days just to send a short e-mail. Since she has shown initiative to continue talking to you, I'd say yes, you should wine and dine more. |
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icesk8erchic101
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:19 am Post subject: |
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| Yes you should defintly do something with her but don't keep it to boring wine and dine all the time! Spice it up a bit! Go to movies, plays, parks, etc. Do what she wants to do too! And call her just to talk sometimes also! |
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I_am_me___
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:19 am Post subject: |
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| What is your goal? She sounds like she likes you. So if you want to start a relationship then you should continue. If you just want to sleep with her, then look elsewhere. Don't screw up a family friendship. |
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alexfell22
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:19 am Post subject: |
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| aww thats cute uhm i think you doing good keep it up! |
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c§c
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:19 am Post subject: |
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| It sounds like you are off to a good start, but yes, you have to continue if you want it to lead anywhere. If you think it's too much work, then don't do it, but it sounds like she would be a great catch. |
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rcButterfly
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:19 am Post subject: |
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| Do you have to wine and dine her more for what exactly? It doesn't sound like you two live anywhere near one another so you can't have a physical relationship with her right? To stay in contact with her I couldn't imagine why you would have to buy her gifts. |
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Pistons in da house
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:19 am Post subject: |
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| Tell her whatever you have to tell her to get her to give up dat azz. Don't waste a bunch of money though, it isn't worth it. |
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JJMcIntosh
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:20 am Post subject: |
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| Just go with the flow. Do what you want to do with her and allow her to do the same. It seems that you and her work really well together. Just stay in constant contact with her and take things at their own pace without pushing things just yet. Things will get deeper the longer you stay in contact the way you are doing now. Just take things as they come and you cant go wrong. Good Luck! |
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katie k
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:20 am Post subject: |
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| well if you like her then u should wine and dine more because then you guys can become even closer than you already are!?!?!?!?!?!? |
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electracute7
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| Posted: Fri Aug 17, 2007 11:20 am Post subject: |
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| not if you don't want to... i mean, she sounds like some one that i would dedicate more time to, but you shouldn't feel obligated to her. its nice to catch up with people but there's no need to stay in touch. |
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