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darklovelyqueen
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 Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 10:04 am Post subject: help me please understand this breakup? |
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| my boyfriend broke up with me on my birthday, after bringing me a gift, beautiful watch with crystals, expensive wine, dinner reservations, toasted me on my birthday, later that night he gets up around 2 am and walks, out, i think he was upset because i was up reading a book instead of in the in the bed, but he was asleep, what is going on, why would he do this on my birthday, do u think it was planned, help me, he only said that we were not a match because he go to sleep early and i stayed up, well it was my birthday, whats up help |
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ladygodiva0220
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| Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 10:08 am Post subject: |
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| Sounds like he just has petty issues. You deserve someone who will treat you better than than anyway. |
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gamermic
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| Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 10:09 am Post subject: |
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U should have asked him what he wanted...  |
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Bubbles
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| Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 10:09 am Post subject: |
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| Perhaps he wanted to continue the "wining and dining" on into the bedroom and you just wanted to read. Seems like he was being very sweet to you and then you wanted to be alone. Seems odd and perhaps he felt unappreciated. |
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j c
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| Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 10:10 am Post subject: |
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| Maybe he was trying to buy your love? I dunno, not enough details I guess. But if he was upset you were reading when he was sleeping? That just sounds strange, like maybe he is insecure or something! Maybe you should just move on and find someone who is more mature. Best wishes! |
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$_$+*_*+@_@=me!
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| Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 10:12 am Post subject: |
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| he sounds like an odd balland i dont think it was planned...because why would u spend soo much money on someone when u KNOW ur going to end it alldoesnt add upi think he just got mad...and in ur defence..it was a retarded reason to get mad at...good luck |
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Gianna T
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| Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 10:12 am Post subject: |
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| Hm... That's strange... He must have not liked that you like to stay up late. I'm sorry about the breakup though. :-(My parents have been married for a huge amount of time and my father goes to bed early while my mother stays up very late watching TV. Sorry if I wasn't a big help. |
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Crystal
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| Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 10:12 am Post subject: |
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| Call yourself lucky for him 2 just do that on ur birthday because you didnt have sex imagine what would have happened if you did have sex with him..its better 2 feel heartbroken with a full heart then heartbroken with a half of heart... |
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sweet p
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| Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 10:13 am Post subject: |
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| Sounds to me that he thought your relationship was a pay as you go-he paid for your past and future in bed and you wernt there this time so he rolled along.next time before bed have the one buy you a diamond ring and make it real. everything he spent was less that what a pro would cost him, so now he will be off looking probably for another free milk, paid for with stuff in his thought up way of an investment plan.And remember most of all the key in relationship and trust isnt just outside closeness -as the eyes are the gate to the soul, and body closeness doesnt come till true friendship is established, as it is very important who we serve, in Jesus it says dont be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has light with darkness. It is vital and its more about heart than looks, that you are to trust the Lord, who wasnt so cute all bloody on the cross, as he said "I go to the cross for the joy set before me, that you may believe.Revelation 3:19&20 (& 1:1 chapter 1 verse 1 spoken from heaven) "I love you and knock on your heart door to come in, if you will ask forgiveness of sin (even one lie) and then i will be your friend."so i prayed "Jesus thanks for dying for my sins, I am sorry for them, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen.and remember what life is all about yet take it with humor too="Humor is the spiciest condiment in the feast of existence. Laugh at your own mistakes but learn from them; Joke over your troubles but gather strength from them; make jest of your difficulties but overcome them. Laugh be merry, be happy! You shall pass this way but once...:& words from the book The Purpose Driven Life=Peace and joy to youAbout Rick Warren (REMEMBER HE WROTE-PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE) "Purpose Driven Life " author and pastor of Saddleback Church in California. In the interview by Paul Bradshaw with Rick Warren, Rick said: People ask me, What is the purpose of life? And I respond: In a nutshell, life is preparation for eternity. We were made to last forever,& God wants us to fellowship with Him now & in Heaven. One day my heart is going to stop, and that will be the end of my body-- but not the end of me. I may live 60 to 100 years on earth, but I am going to spend trillions of years in eternity. This is the warm-up act - the dress rehearsal. God wants us to practice on earth what we will do forever in eternity. We were made by God and for God, and until you figure that out, life isn't going to make sense. Life is a series of problems: Either you are in one now, you're just coming out of one, or you're getting ready to go into another one. Its about building Character and living right not taking the easy way for a moment of some pleasure in sin, then paying for it-reaping what we have sowed.We can be reasonably happy here on earth, but that's not the goal of life. The goal is to grow in character, in Christ likeness in his peace and inner joy no matter ones situation in life. Romans 8:28&29This past year has been the greatest year of my life but also the toughest, with my wife, Kay, getting cancer. The sales to date of over 13 millions copies sold, I have given to repay my wages to our church for these past years so I am working for free for Jesus, and established a fund for eduction and helping the helpless and homeless.We have not made a major purchase for ourselves or changed our already wonderful home and life.I used to think that life was hills and valleys. Yet, now i think of it as kind of like two rails on a railroad track, and at all times you have something good and something bad in your life. No matter how good things are in your life, there is always something bad that needs to be worked on. And no matter how bad things are in your life, there is always something good you can thank God for. You can focus on your purposes, or you can focus on your problems. If you focus on your problems, you're going into self-centeredness,"which is my problem, my issues, my pain." But one of the easiest ways to get rid of pain is to get your focus off yourself and onto God and others.Best wishes and I am praying for you all the best. David the sweet pea |
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Loraine F
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| Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 10:13 am Post subject: |
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| Your boyfriend sounds like he has issues. While it was tacky of him to wait until your birthday, now you are free to find someone without mental issues. |
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Abstract Expression
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| Posted: Mon Aug 27, 2007 10:15 am Post subject: |
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| He went out of his way to make plans for your bday.. i guess all he wanted in return was some hanky panky. I mean, i've had some bdays... and no one has ever gone out of their way for me like he did for you. My gratitude would be to cuddle and... (of course if we already were in that kind of relationship...) If he left you like that then... he was really hurt..& upset. HE SHOULDNT EXPECT ANYTHING IN RETURN.. It seems as tho that's all he was really looking for. |
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