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Lily Flower
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 Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 1:04 am Post subject: Is it wrong to send a gift to a shower that I'm not invited to? |
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| ackground story: I have a friend (A) who is pregnant, another friend (B) of mine was mad at A and said all kinds of mean, hateful, and harsh things about A, her husband and unborn baby. Now B is mad at me. Nobody ever told A about the mean things that B said. Now B is throwing a baby shower for A. I wasn't invited to the baby shower (obviously) because the hostess is B and she doesn't want me there. Which is fine, I mean it is her house and all. From the very begining of A's pregnancy I have been looking forward to giving her a very special gift that I made for her and the baby.The question is: Is it wrong to send a gift to a shower that I'm not invited to?I was actually thinking is would be a pleasant surprise for A to have another friend C (who told me about the shower) bring my gift to the shower. |
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Rana
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| Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 1:09 am Post subject: |
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| no |
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julie
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| Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 1:17 am Post subject: |
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| no shower, no gift. if you give her a gift shell feel very uncomfortable for not giving you an invitation. and im pretty sure she didn't just forget to invite you. |
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Peggy S
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| Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 1:26 am Post subject: |
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| no, by all means send a gift. you'll feel better in the end |
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ap
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| Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 1:35 am Post subject: |
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| well its not wrong, but it maybe better to just give it to her(a) in person. |
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barefootin
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| Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 1:40 am Post subject: |
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| Do not send a gift!!!! Your so called friend, known as B. sounds quite mean spirited, and even jealous, plus she is always mad at someone, it seems. I believe that if you sent a gift, the friend, A, would not even get it! Go to her house and present it to her yourself. By all means, give it to her, but do so yourself. You do not need to be at a shower to present a gift. Good luck to you and A. With a friend like B you will both need it. |
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