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ARMY WIFE Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:47 pm Post subject: Do I need to bring a gift to the hospital to see my friend's new baby? |
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| My friend's sister is having her baby tonight and I am going to the hosptial in the morning to see her and her new baby. I already gave her some gifts at her baby shower.....do I need to bring a gift to the hospital too? |
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ashj_1218 Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:52 pm Post subject: |
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| No. Not at all. I usually like to bring like a balloon or some nice socks for the mom though. Just because it is a nice thing to have something to brighten the room (or keep feet warm). But it is not expected to bring something else to the hospital, she will likely be glad you stopped by. |
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Shawn's Mawm Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:52 pm Post subject: |
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| no,... its just more stuff for her to carry home... my friends brought me gifts, and i didnt need them until i got home.. mostly stuffed animals and balloons and things... i loved them but i had trouble carrying all it out and stuffing it in the car while driving home.. annoying... |
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Pedsgurl Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:53 pm Post subject: |
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| Nope! And I doubt any one will notice. There is nothing that says you have to have a present to see the baby. However, if you wanted to stop and get a little bouquet of flowers, the new mommy might appreciate those,too? But, no, I think you should just bring yourself otherwise! |
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fuzzykitty Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:55 pm Post subject: |
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| No, all it does is add to the things she needs to bring home. |
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sailortinkitty Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:55 pm Post subject: |
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| Only if they are something the mother can Visually focus on.You do not want to bring things that are physically handled as her hands will BE FULL.I wouldn't bring blankets or clotheing either as that will be handled and tossed around,.. after a mysterious life going through many hands in a store. Anything that's been touched by many hands and will need handled or be handled is not a good idea around New Borns and their mothers.If you do want to bring another gift that is in a box, they may work.For the most part she is going to want rest, conversions, and a hand as she may be weak or have her hands full. Be ready to bring her drinks and snacks. |
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kiss_of_angel_20 Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:55 pm Post subject: |
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| No you don't have to. Only if you want to and it could be something small like a rose or a congrats card as she is going to be bringing the very best thing home with her which is the baby. |
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JamieK Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 4:56 pm Post subject: |
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| No you don't have to. Just going will be a nice surprise. If you want to take something then take some fresh cookies and a small bottle of milk, much better than hospital food. Or you could take something for the mom like some bath beads and an aromatic candle, so she can have a nice bath when she gets home. Just a couple of ideas but really not necessary. Also, if you do take something don't make it too bulky, they are going to have enough to load and unload. |
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SMILES Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 5:01 pm Post subject: |
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| no not at all...maybe some flowers =) |
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pneumasender Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 5:05 pm Post subject: |
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| Usually, you would bring flowers or a card. That's sufficient for now. Later, you could get something for the baby if you think it's appropriate and you'll have ongoing contact with the child. Otherwise, the shower was enough. |
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(MIRACLE) Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 5:16 pm Post subject: |
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| Hi! Well first i would like to congradulate your friend on the new baby,No you don't neeed to bring a gift your friend will not be upset im sure you showing up would be a gift,All you need to do is bring yourself,a friends love is better then a any gifts in the world.Good luck miracle |
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Ciera Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 5:45 pm Post subject: |
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| No...Sometimes the greatest gift is no gift at all. Just you going up there is more than enough |
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krystalc Yahoo User
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Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 1:10 am Post subject: |
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| no. but it would be nice to. alittle something will do. usally when u do. they keep that item forever. just alittle memory for the baby.=) |
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mybabiba Yahoo User
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Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 9:23 pm Post subject: |
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| You dont have too but it is always appreciated.The best is to bring a present for the new mother!!!!For the baby... I found this website http://www.petitegem.com where you can get bracelets for $25 - $35. They make the cutest bracelets just for kids & babies. |
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