Stay-at-home moms/homemakers?
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sparkleythings_4you
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 Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 8:08 am Post subject: |
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| You said it right, you DO have a job, you have the hardest job in the world, and all the housework on top of it, you don't earn any wages but you do work hard, so don't feel guilty, you may not work in an office or shop but you do still work, you've earned it. |
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midnight_dreamz80
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| Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 8:14 am Post subject: |
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| I am a pretty much full-time SAHM myself and the money that comes in is OUR money not just his...even though most the money goes to BILLS..I don't feel guilty at buying him something..just like with Christmas coming around I bought him things he needed and would have ended up buying sooner or later. Being a SAHM is a full time job and if we got paid it would be over 100,000 yearly. Good luck! |
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theresa
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| Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 8:18 am Post subject: |
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| I would cook a cake or make a present that means more anyways. don't worry i am a stay home mom of 13 years my handicap son needs me more then i need a job i am dirt poor but, love and being there is all i need...screw what others think do what needs to be done. i hope one day i get to work again. i miss it a lot. government makes that hard for me to do i need his medical card to much.....he is blind can't walk, talk, nothing......it is so depressing at times. good luck! |
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Debbie
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| Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 8:22 am Post subject: |
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There's nothing to feel guilty about. As you said, it's not "his" money, it's both of yours. I'm sure he feels the same way. So, go ahead.. pick him up something nice for your anniversary, and feel good about it!  |
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Lydia
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| Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 8:28 am Post subject: |
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| No, of course not. As you said, it's your money together.For those who don't appreciate SAHMs, the equivalent salary we should be getting is around $130,000 - equal to TWO full-time jobs.No, don't feel guilty at all! |
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diamonds24
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| Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 9:12 am Post subject: |
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| Why dont you do something else to surprise him like cook him a really nice dinner or dress up for him and you can be the dessert ; )I'm sure he will understand and really appreciate what you do for him. |
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s r f
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| Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 11:20 am Post subject: |
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| hun dont feel bad just get him something small and it doesnt have to be a really big gift or anything, it really is the thought that counts |
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