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Gfbvhgnj G
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 Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 4:50 pm Post subject: Can a man "love" u but cheat on u and why? |
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| I was a 31yr old lonely,divorced mom who by chance emailed my 1st "real love" from high school 10 months ago. He told me he was married but wanted to meet for coffee to catch up. After about 2 hours of small taked he broke down crying about how unhappy he was but was staying for his kids sake. After talking/crying a few more times he told me he could not stay with his wife and was leaving her and wanted to be with me as I was everything she was not. For the last few mouths its been like a dream. Everyone tells me how he braggs about me,he spolies me with gifts,flowers,love poems,tells me things like "I can't believe it you"" we're sole mates". Well I just got a call from this girl who told me she got my # from my bf cell phone and shes has been sleeping with him for the last 2 months! She told me my bf told her about me and that he had no plans on leaving me for her BUT he never told me about her. How can someone tell you they love u so much then cheat on u without a second thought? |
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winter_spice78
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| Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 4:54 pm Post subject: |
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| If he cheats on you then he doesn't really love you. Get out of the relationship now. |
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J's Baby Girl
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| Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 4:55 pm Post subject: |
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| A guy friend of mine once said "No matter how much you love someone there is always one thing a woman can never give you. Variety." Sick but true I think, at least in their eyes! |
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Carolynsn
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| Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 4:56 pm Post subject: |
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| I'm sorry...but he's just scum of the earth. Leave the b*stard now and find someone who truly loves and appreciates you. Good luck! |
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Ricardo
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| Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 4:57 pm Post subject: |
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| You did not say whether or not you have sex with him but I assume you do. If you do, then I would say, "Some men will say anything for sex." You think you are the first one he has done this too? Men always say, "I love you" when they want to get laid. Some men go to a further extreme, but it is all the same. |
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Maria B
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| Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 5:01 pm Post subject: |
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| follow everyone else's advice and leave him. he used you to cheat on his wife and now he's cheating on you with another woman. i don't care if you heard from this other woman that he doesn't plan on leaving you. there's something very wrong with this and you need to leave him asap.p.s. there are a lot of great guys out there that would never disrespect you like him. just remember that when he tries apologizing to you and getting you to get back into bed with him. |
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Kempfy
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| Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 5:08 pm Post subject: |
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| Sounds like a Jerk!!! |
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A Nonny Mouse
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| Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 5:08 pm Post subject: |
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| I wouldn't be so quick to believe this so called girl friend anymore than I would be so quick to believe everything your BF tells you either.....Confront BF about the other GF and see what he says...if your 'gut' instinct tell ya something is fishy..it is. Good Luck. |
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gale s
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| Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 5:10 pm Post subject: |
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| This guy loves only one person-HIMSELFDump him real quick.you are looking for love in all the wrong places.This guy was married.Were is your self-esteem.?You can do better than that Girl.Concentrate on raising those kids of yours,if it is meant to be that you have another love in your life,it will happen when you are not looking.Happiness is something you have to build within yourself, no other person is going to do it for you.If love comes along it will add to the happiness you have already established for yourself. |
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daljack
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| Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 5:24 pm Post subject: |
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| He can do it because he doesn't love you.When some loves you they don't do things that will hurt you.This guy has no integrity. |
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culpepp11
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| Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 5:40 pm Post subject: |
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| Honey it seems like all this man does is cheat. He was married when you met up with him so that should have sent a red flag to you then, then he turned around and cheated on you. Cut your losses now, you can't possibly be that lonely to stick with a cheater. |
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Butterfly
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| Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 6:16 pm Post subject: |
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| If he really loved you he wouldn't cheat on you. There is no way a man can love a woman totally and still cheat on her because if he loved her then the idea of having sex with another woman would be disgusting to him. |
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♥ terry g ♥
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| Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 6:23 pm Post subject: |
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| To love you is to respect you also. What he's doing is not respectful. |
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gagirl01
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| Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 6:56 pm Post subject: |
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| COME ON!! You cant really be shocked. He was messing with you while he was married. Ever heard the saying "once a cheater always a cheater"? Well there is your living proof. You gave it up to him so he got what he wanted. Now its time for him to move on. I may come off harsh but the truth is harsh sometimes. Dump him and move on. He does not love you. He just wanted someone to keep his bed warm when he left his wife until he found someone else he wanted to be with. |
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lovebug2052
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| Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:20 pm Post subject: |
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| i would just ask him about this .stay calm till you know for sure whats going on.this girl could be just trying to break you 2 up. |
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