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Coley
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| It's a toss up on whether you should invite her or not. I say invite her for the sake of your father. Talk to him see how he feels about you not inviting her. If you don't want to be blunt with it Just bring up the guest list him read the names off and see if it comes to his attention that she's not on there. If it doesn't then you act as if it never even crossed you mind she wasn't on there. Or of course you can just not invite her period. |
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April 316
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| Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 11:41 pm Post subject: |
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| Well, here is my experience...if you think that any of your relatives that you really want at your wedding are going to be insulted that you did not send this girl an invite, then you should send her one. In the end it elimates alot of anger and hostility on part of the family. The last thing you want to deal with is a bunch of your relatives coming up to you saying, "Why didn't she get an invitation?" Or 'If she can't go then I am not coming" etc. If you think your family might pull something like this then invite her. If your family doesn't care either way, then don't send her an invitation...doesn't sound like this girl has much interest anyway, and she certainly didn't think twice when she did not send you an invite to her birthday party. |
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OZZIEGAL
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| Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 11:42 pm Post subject: |
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| ok, your second sentence says it all. this is your dad's girlfriend's daughter and sweetie no matter how rude she is, you have to invite her. you sure don't want to upset your dad or his lady and you certainly don't want to be as rude as this girl. you don't have to forgive her, you don't even have to be buddies with her, you just have to be a good daughter for your dad's sake.be the bigger person here, once the wedding is over you don't need to bother with her again, and even if she attends you are not going to have time to do more than say hello, if you even have time for that. so, pay the extra dollars for her plate it doesn't mean you are the kind of person that invites everyone all the time, it simply means you are doing the right thing in this instance. good luck and happy wedding! |
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Rachel P
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| Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 11:43 pm Post subject: |
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| I would not invite her. Weddings are about you and your soon to be husband. You should both invite the people that you want to share your special day with. |
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bride2be
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| Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 11:46 pm Post subject: |
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| If you wedding is just small with your closest peeps don't invite her.. but if you are inviting a lot of people you should probably invite her. Either way I would check with your dad and see what he thinks.. |
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flutterflie04
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| Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 11:48 pm Post subject: |
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| everyone is going to say dont invite her, but the #1 rule of having an engagement party is only invite those that will get an invitation. you invited her to that, so she has to get an invitation. |
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Ninja
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| Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 11:53 pm Post subject: |
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| if your not close and you don't really feel like seeing her on your big day and she wasn't polite to you when you were then you shouldn't invite her |
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kikay
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| Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 11:54 pm Post subject: |
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| i agree with you. DONT INVITE HER! |
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My thoughts
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| Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 11:55 pm Post subject: |
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| How close are you to your father's partner? If you have welcomed this person into your father's life, it would be a nice gesture to invite this person's daughter.If your father's history with this partner is short or rocky or this person has never quite made it into the family, you could avoid inviting the daughter. |
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christycat88
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 12:03 am Post subject: |
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It sounds like she's not interested in attending anyway, going by the way that she treats you and the lack of regard she shows you....Don't invite her!  There doesn't need to be anything mean about it, but you're not close and you're not obligated to invite her. You'll be fine! |
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Kjersti G
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 12:10 am Post subject: |
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| Dont invite her! It would mean spending more money for her to come and you dont really even know her well so I wouldnt.It's your day so you get to pick. Unless Your Fathers partner pays for some of your wedding then I WOULD invite her. |
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gemittarrius
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 12:22 am Post subject: |
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| No, don't invite her. |
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Mrs.Tiffy
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 12:42 am Post subject: |
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| I would invite her. Be the bigger person by setting an example. People look up at that. ) |
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Heather A
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 1:59 am Post subject: |
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| Well, she didn't seem to care much about your party and she didn't even invite you to her big birthday party. What does that say? It depends how serious your dad and his partner are too. How much time you spend with the daughter other then these events. If not that much then don't invite her. Your dad could always pay for her if he doesn't approve of your decision and you want to compromise. Your wedding is for people who have been there for you and WILL be there for you in your future. Doesn't sound like she would care either way. |
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Steph
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 2:17 am Post subject: |
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| My general rule is: If in doubt don't invite. Imagine how many people would be at your wedding (and the cost of it) if you invited everyone you were not sure about. |
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