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angelcutie
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 Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:30 am Post subject: I'm not happy with my boyfriend I'm 24 and he is 34 We've been together 2 years and in two years I've never |
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| recieved a christmas or valentines day gift from him. He brags about all the nice things he is going to do for me but never does anything. I bought him a glass plaque that said soul mates with our names on it for valentines day and he wouldn't even except it. Whenever he needs me I'm always there for him. He recently had his identity stolen and didn't have any money to put his in his car to get where he need to be in annother city so I gave him the little money I had. He told me he loves me because I'm always there for him, but I don't feel he loves me the way I love him, but I just can't bring myself to leave him help. Oh and he makes a $100,000 a year so he can afford to buy the things he says he will get but never gets. Help I want to leave but I somehow still want him at the same time. |
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krandazzo1986
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| Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:34 am Post subject: |
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| your story sounds like its missing a couple pieces etc....um yea i dont buy it |
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Valerie X Loves You!!!
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| Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:35 am Post subject: |
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| Something doesn't sound right here....that is for sure...... |
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green_clovers66
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| Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:35 am Post subject: |
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| Sounds to me like you are a door mat and he is wiping his feet all over you. If you can't see this for yourself and move on then suffer the consequences. |
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Quasimodo
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| Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:35 am Post subject: |
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| You want him at the same time and so does his wife.Something is rotten in Denmark.Either he's married and playing around with you or he's just playing you for the sucker you appear to be. Time to re-evaluate your standing here. |
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littleluvkitty
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| Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:36 am Post subject: |
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| if he makes so much why couldn't he put gas in his car? even if your identy is stolen you still have money. he is just using you. you should move on and find a guy that will treat you the way that you deserve. |
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reddevilbloodymary
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| Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:36 am Post subject: |
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| No idea how to help you do what you know needs to be done....you know he isn't treating you the way you want to be treated, so you really only have yourself to blame for staying. Just DO IT.....that's all I can say. Yes, you will miss him, yes you will be lonely at first...but you will find another man, probably one who will treat you the way you want. Good Luck. |
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i miss you so much, honey
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| Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:36 am Post subject: |
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| dump him. |
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Tina
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| Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:36 am Post subject: |
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| You have two choices. You can stay with the cheap skate and be miserable or you can leave and have a happy and fullfilled life. Up to you. Whining on here about it won't help because he can only do to you what you allow him to do. |
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spunky
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| Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:37 am Post subject: |
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| He's a cheapskate. Get out of this relationship. You want a guy who reciprocates my dearest. If a guy loves you, he will try to please you too. Relationships are two-sided. Don't give him anymore money. Never give a guy money unless he's your husband. You can leave him. Just be confident in who you are and know that you deserve better. He's never going to change, don't you think you deserve better than this? I sure think that you do. Do yourself a favor and leave the relationship. |
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britt
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| Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:37 am Post subject: |
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| maybe you should talk to him instead of us..he's the one thats making you unhappy....and you deserve to be happy...so talk to him or leave him |
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Tim M
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| Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:38 am Post subject: |
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| you picked him, you stay with him,you gave him the money |
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ronald b
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| Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:39 am Post subject: |
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| He Is Very self centered. He needs to know the sun don't start each day with him getting up. It takes two to make a relationship work. He needs to think of you the way you think of him. Reward him when or if he gets you some thing with a great night of sex. May be he'll put two and two togeather. |
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MB
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| Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:39 am Post subject: |
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| Hopefully he'll make up for it if/when he purposes. =)No, but really, he just sounds like a penny-pincher. If he can't even buy you something for at least either Christmas/Valentine's Day, that's rather sad and pathetic (I won't even ask about your b-day). |
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callawak2
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| Posted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 11:39 am Post subject: |
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| Well kiddo you can't have it both ways. Either stay and learn to live with this guys ways, or just get out. There is no middle ground here. Personally, if he is not treating you the way you want you are with the wrong guy. |
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