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Move Along
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 Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 8:56 pm Post subject: girl problem here!? |
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| ok.. firstly i am in gr12 and i'm 17rs old.There is this girl that's pretty much one of my best friends, i'm her closest guy friend and vica versa. Anyways i began to develop feelings for her a while ago, just before valentines day. Soshe's the type that's quite 'flirty' not slutty, flirty. she's the type who says 'oh man he's so hot, i'd so sleep with him' etc. all into that hot guy stuff and always tells me this crap. well for V.day i got her a gift, left it in her locker and she didnt even look at it until like 6 dfays later, thats when she thanked me, so that didn't go as planned. she figured out i liked her and complained to her girl friend that she didnt want me 2, b.c then it'd get all akward and crap. so i'm just fed up with the whole matter, and iw ant to stop liking her, but i dont want to stop talkng to her b.c shes so close to me. how do i stop this feeling in my heart?should i stop talking 2 her so much and see what she does about it?? |
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chefguyandy@att.net
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| Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 9:02 pm Post subject: |
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| best thing to do is just focus on another girl and talk to your lady friend about her. it works. |
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Suzy Q
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| Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 9:05 pm Post subject: |
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| go for some1 else. there's plenty of fish in the sea. |
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mikeejenkins3
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| Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 9:06 pm Post subject: |
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| Maybe she does`nt see you as a boyfriend but as a friend. You can`t get mad because she is not attracted to you because maybe you are not her type. I would say talk to her about it and see how she responds. But if she is not really feeling you than there is not much you can do. |
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i_love_milk_n_cookies
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| Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 9:10 pm Post subject: |
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| ooh. im sorry... =(the best thing 2 do is 2 actually tell her HOW YOU FEEL.she mite not even kno u developed feelings 4 her. and the best thing to do is to actually tell her b4 its too late... (too late as in get a bf too late)good luck♥Samantha |
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Greek Girl 330
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| Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 9:10 pm Post subject: |
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| I don't think you should stop talking to her. The same thing happened to me. I used to like this sophomore and he knew it and he was nice about it, cuz I'm a freshman but he didn't have feelings back. We stopped talking for a while, and it didn't really help. It just distanced us and it made even more awkward. I think you should talk it out with her, and tell her how you actually feel about her. I think you'll be better friends if you're honest with her, instead of trying to pretend that you don't like her. It sucks because you can't stop liking someone when you want to. Distancing yourself from her will make you keep thinking about her and it won't help with your trying to get away from your feelings from her, so I think just talking it out with her will help. Plus, if you tell her exactly how you feel and you're really sincere about it, she might start liking you back. |
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