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honeyboo_queenll Yahoo User
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Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 8:27 pm Post subject: Be honest......was i wrong? |
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| friday at school i found out that when me and him was going together he had sex with this girl that goes to our school, i mean we dont go together no more, but it happened wen we was so i wanted to ask him, i asked him and my friend did to and he was like she gave him head, then he walked off laughing and saying ah ha ah ha and laughing, that made me feel bad cause he didnt even have to do all that, so yesterday when my school went to the cheerleadin competetion i brought in a bag the valentines day gift he gave me(it was ripped up in a bag, even the bear) by the way my cousin ripped it up. but anyways we told him to look under the front seat of the bus when they got back on and thats where we left the bag with the stuff on it, they saw it, and now all his friends talking whoop my assin shit, and im bogus lol..anyways, i dont feel like im bogus because im just returning a gift i no longer wanted in my house, and plus what he did to me on friday almost made me cry that shit was bogus, so i reacted |
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Nicki Yahoo User
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Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 8:35 pm Post subject: |
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| Your first mistake was asking him that question, you should have just left it alone since you guys are no longer together, your second mistake was not only returning the bear that he gave you but destroying it, now him and all of his friends will be thinking that you are still sweating him and everytime they see you there will always be some kind of joke and laughter. Take my advice leave it alone and ignore them anything else you do will only make it worst. |
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let_it_be_known1981 Yahoo User
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Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 8:36 pm Post subject: |
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| When you look back on it, probably a year or two or five, you're gonna see that it probably wasn't even worth it. I mean, I get your anger. It's something worth being upset about. Because this is a fact, if you're going to be in a relationship, then do the relationship. Infidelity is just not an excuse and it's a lame thing to do. But what you're going to come to understand is that when you show emotion in that way, you're feeding into some people's ego. Like they have that much control over you. I'm sorry he did you wrong, and whatever led to your break up was probably the right choice in hindsight. But just stay strong, smile, and understand that it's so much bigger than getting upset at little stuff that someone has done to you in a relationship. Plus understand that people end up reaping what they sow regardless of how you react to the situation. Smile...Be happy...what's done is done. |
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