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Dusher Yahoo User
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Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 12:06 pm Post subject: How can i be friends with my ex? |
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| Okay... me and my ex are friends now becuase her parents dont believe in dating. they didn't know that we were going out though. i told her that we have to be friends... that we can't go out anymore because her parents wants us to be friends and down the road we might meet again. Now me and her are friends... she tells me that this is not the end for us. i said the same thing. The friendship: being friends with her shouldn't be a problem. wrong! shes making it so hard for me. I try to talk to her but she hardly answers me. she tells me that shes still trying to get accustomed to it. i hear that and go with that. i bought her some orchids(her favorite flower) as a friendly gift. not to get her back. she calls me the same day and asks me if we are going slow enough. I tell her yeah. then she tells me that she feels that we should go slower. I don't understand why she told me that. I dont understand why. I mean we are friends, whats slower than that? My question is: What is should I do? |
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jan Yahoo User
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Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 12:12 pm Post subject: |
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None of my male friends buy me flowers Think about it, try treating her like you do your regular female friends. I think the two of you still really like each other and it's easy to cross the line. |
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Jazzy >_< Yahoo User
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Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 12:19 pm Post subject: |
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| Clearly you both still have feelings for one another and if it weren't for her parents disapproving you would still be together.In my opinion you have both done the right thing in breaking up and perhaps reuniting in future.In the meantime, she is only being like this because it is hard for her. I bet you feel the same thing, but perhaps not as strongly.Every time you do something nice for her or even look at her in a nice way, she feels pained inside, the feeling that she really wants you (not sexually) but cannot have you.It hurts.What I'm trying to say is stop being SO nice, be nice but just normal friend nice.I know how she feels so, good luck.[You could talk to her about this but chances are, it's what I said.] |
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