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playergirljustice
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 Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 3:44 pm Post subject: boyfriend troubles help? |
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| ok my boyfriend and i have bine together for five years iam canadian and he is african we had a baby last year but yet i feel unhappy and misrable he never helps me with are so iam always the one up at night and in the mornings he will not change his bum he will not feed him or make meals and he never gives me money to help out with buying clothing he loves his son a lot and cuddles with him but when he goes to the store he does not ever take him with him. iam not sure if it the culture or what but i feel unloved uncare for and feel empty in five year this year was the first time he bought me a gift for christmas not once has he goten me anything for my birthday mothers day valentines day or anything. and know we never have intercourse iam 24 years old and he is 34 iam so sad these days can anyone help me out what should i do or what can i tryhe never was like this he got hit by a drunk driver 2 years ago spent a year in the hospital with only home visits near the end and was diagnosed with a mental disorder before he was so loving and caring |
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krazieamie
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| Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 3:50 pm Post subject: |
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| there is no culture difference. A MAN should take care of his child wether it is money or helping out... Sounds like to me if you read your own questions you are better off being by yourself. At least then you will get some money for child support |
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xMC JEBx
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| Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 3:51 pm Post subject: |
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| ok explain to me how he is a sweetheart if he does not buy you presents, take care of you, or take care of your babyhe is also A LOT older than you. i think you deserve better he does not deserve you and you don't deserve this. i'm so sorry good luck |
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-Rin
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| Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 3:51 pm Post subject: |
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| You knew how this guy was before you had your baby. You've been together five years. Now you're bound with him for another eighteen. You should have let him go a long time ago. You're doing all this complaining, yet I know you're going to sleep with him tonight, so please don't tell this sob story.Who's paying the bills and keeping a roof over your head as well as the lights on? If it's him and not you, trust he's taking care of both of you guys. |
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cutedimples
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| Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 3:52 pm Post subject: |
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| its time u sit down with him and let him know how u feel.. its called communicating.. all cultures are different and so are men .. not all men are considerate.. but if u tell him how much u love him and how u miss the relationship as in what it should be.. and how u need some help with the baby he might try to understand and make some changes..let him know there are basic needs u need help with..like the clothing and stuff for the house and baby.. tell him u feel lonely and left out.. if he loves u he will make a change and try at least his best.. if he doesnt more likely he will never be loving and caring.... some men have a hard time showing emotions and affection.. so try to understand that side of him...but do talk to him.. good luck |
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Kristen
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| Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 3:53 pm Post subject: |
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| wow he never bought you presents for christmas or anything yet you stayed with this loser for 5 YEARS?!!? wow dump him and don't waste any more of your time with him |
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Loreen B
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| Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 3:53 pm Post subject: |
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| that is a sad situation. maybe you should try talking to him about all of these things and get it off your chest. let him know that you are not feeling loved. and by doing that maybe he will make a change and if he does not then something is definitely wrong |
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