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abc D
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Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 1:57 pm Post subject: Why my husband never buys me a gift or says i love u?

i am married for 3years now and my huband never buys me a gift or flowers or even a card for my birthday,valentine's day or even our anniversary. He never says to me 'i love you" or "i miss you" when he travels or even shows me the feeling that he loves or miss me or even cares.i never asked him for anything, it hurts me soo much, i talked to him about this but he doesnt show me any care and even hurts my feelings more,so i stopped talking to him about this anymore and tried not to think about this too much but i cant. it really makes me soo sad and think of divorce.

floridanative76
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 1:59 pm Post subject:

If he doesn't say "I love you" then he probably doesn't.Move on.*

Valerie S
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Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 1:59 pm Post subject:

Are you in love with him? It sounds like a one sided relationship, suggest taking a break, see what he says, maybe you'll realize you're happier without him.

? ?
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 1:59 pm Post subject:

some people just don't show or say...but they do care. usually a lot more than those who abuses "i love you."

innaeagle
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 2:00 pm Post subject:

i feel bad for u...divorce cums to mi mind to

Saira !
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 2:00 pm Post subject:

thats not good at all.i mean if youve already tried talking to him and he doesnt care than gosh- id think of divorce too.i mean what is a marriage without affection.i hope things turn out for the best girl <3.good luck.

kiwichic
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 2:00 pm Post subject:

You need to tell him how you feel and how important little gestures like that mean to you. You must have known he was like that before you married him??

dog lover
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 2:00 pm Post subject:

mine too, we not even married yet. imagine what's gonna be after we got married.

WilliamOC < My Gamerta
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 2:00 pm Post subject:

Ask him does he love you

belligerency23
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 2:00 pm Post subject:

because he doesn't.

SANDRA :)
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 2:01 pm Post subject:

Did he do any of those things before you were married?

mark019
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 2:01 pm Post subject:

he is taking you for granted. maybe he doesn't even really love you. Many guys would rather be married to someone they really don't love than be alone. Hope all works out for you.

Jay863
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 2:01 pm Post subject:

Was this always like this? If it was than really hun, it's you're fault you let it go this far. But if you are really feeling depressed and unloved, and it hurts to be with him, then maybe divorce is the best idea. Talk to him!!!

Gonna Be Mrs. L !! 10/04
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 2:01 pm Post subject:

Honey, im sorry to hear this... If you have tried to talk to him, and he does nothing but insult you and disrespects you, then i wouldnt waist any more time. I hate to say that, but unless he agrees to counceling or something, which it doesnt sound like he would, then i would get out now, and find someone who will appreciate and respect you for who you are.

Takeawalk
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Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 2:01 pm Post subject:

That's sad. I hope you can avoid divorce especially if you have children. Maybe you should try being more romantic and see if it puts him in the mood...I hear it's contagious!! Set the table with candles, turn the lights down low, play some smooth jazz, pour a couple of glasses of wine and tell him you love him. Hey, it's worth a try before you do anything drastic! I hope it works.

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