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Wanda A
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 Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:41 pm Post subject: help, i dont understand where we went wrong? |
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| my boyfriend of 7 months dumped me unexpectedly. we met at work and fell for each other hard. he only has 1 previous relationship where he was in love and got hurt. he wined and dined me bought me gifts that he claimed showed how much he cared. our coworkers thought we were the perfect couple. we got along great but im in school and couldt spend much time with him. he said he understood. i have a child that i told him he would have to wait to meet until we were solid. no prob. he called me many times a day and his actions showed me that he truly enjoyed being with me. but he didnt communicate well which led to minor disagreements that ended fine. eventually he was hurt that he hadnt met my child and after 6 months he did and he loved her. he took me to meet his family 3 hours away and things were great. one night i picked a fight with him about something he did that i didnt like. he didnt take it lightly, he broke up with me after a day of not talking to me, said we werent compatible |
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Lost
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| Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:44 pm Post subject: |
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| I would say hun, you're just not meant to be... please move on... good luck, tc |
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Lauren
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| Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:45 pm Post subject: |
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| It went wrong when you fought. |
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dan
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| Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:45 pm Post subject: |
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| Just ask him if he really doesn't think y'all are compatible... or if he is just saying that because something is on his mind.. find out.. try to work around it... and if it doesn't work... move on, Life is short. |
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Just me
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| Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:46 pm Post subject: |
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| You need to talk to him when he is calm. |
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bigmac01
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| Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:47 pm Post subject: |
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| The only thing that cost you is that your tushy isn't worth keeping for him. |
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Jenny L
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| Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:47 pm Post subject: |
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| okie umm, why dont u call him and see hows he's doing. show him that you still care. i think he said things he didnt want to say and is probably regretting it right now. im pretty sure he didnt mean the things he said |
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Jared W.
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| Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:47 pm Post subject: |
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| sounds like his opinion meant nothing to you, that sounds like a fair reason to leave a woman |
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Fran X
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| Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:47 pm Post subject: |
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| hav sex with him and sneak to his house at night time when hes alone knock on the door and when he sees you snog him and push his hand up ur top |
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brandon h
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| Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:48 pm Post subject: |
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| He was just not ready probly felt unapreshated and remind him of his prevous relationship.. |
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bbaby166
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| Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:49 pm Post subject: |
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| talk to him it's really weird |
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Debonie L
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| Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:49 pm Post subject: |
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well from his point of veiw u may of went 2 fast with the school the kid guys r hard 2 understand but he prob just sayed that he understood jst so he could b with u r maybe he was trying 2 make it work but it just didnt work its okay dont be sad its okay theres plenty of fish in the sea P.S. but i dont think u did nething wrong its prob just him mabe give him time and thing talk  |
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person
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| Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:49 pm Post subject: |
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| then it just wasnt meant to be. everything happens for a reason. he just wasnt the right person for you. dont let your hopes down...... there is plenty of fishes in the sea. i wish you good luck. |
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Heartbroke and Stupid
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| Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:49 pm Post subject: |
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| If he had been through heartbreak before he probably is still carrying some of the "baggage" from that and doesn't even know it. I know because I did the same thing to my ex and didn't even realize what I was doing until she broke up with me. I would recommend that you let him know that you understand that he has had tough times in the past and that you are not that person. I would also let him know that as far as meeting your child goes that you need to be certain that it is for real. You do not want your child to get attached to someone and start seeing a father figure and than have that ripped away. I personally have had bad experiences with girls with children, no offense, and know that it is hard to determine when the time is right. Make things right with him first and then you will be able to talk about the child thing. Communication is a must as hard as it is sometimes. |
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$ug@r&$prinkle
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| Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 12:51 pm Post subject: |
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| how do you feel about him ??? are you willing to fight for him ??? if so then talk to him try to compromise an come to a solution if you can't then maybe he's rite an you should move on because there's gonna be some one who is worth holding onto waiting for you some where : good luck |
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