How do I tell my husband to stop chating with strange women in the internet?
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precious_x
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 Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 10:21 am Post subject: |
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| ... the way you just put it in your question except verbally! Don't apologize because then he won't take you serious therefore doing it again! The real question is Why are you even still with him?! Notice how it went from chatting on the computer to texting them on his phone! I bet 9 times out of 10 he has met one of these women out. He has no respect for you and that's why he keeps doing it let alone in front of your face! If it hurt you it's because it's NOT right. Think about it! No one can tell you what to do in this situation because it looks like you're a glutton for punishment and you'll end up saying sorry or staying with him! I'm not trying to be mean but how do you suppose he respects you when you don't respect yourself by putting your foot down or just not dealing with it? If you have kids with him especially daughters do you think it's fair or right for them to see you take this kind of behavior from their dad? Your baby girls are going to think this is o.k. to put up with and your boys are going to get the impression if daddy acts like this and mom tolerates it then it's right if all women get this treatment from men! |
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Jaded
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| Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 10:22 am Post subject: |
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| What??? You apologize to him for being jealous? I would have been gone after the first time. He is virtually cheating, probably physically cheating also, and he is emotionally abusive. Please tell me what is good about this guy? You need to leave, you need to leave now. Don't ever let a man treat you that way. Go to counseling and get some self-esteem. Any woman on her right mind would have been gone. Make sure you throw his computer against the wall before you go, and cancel the Internet service. There are decent men in the world; leave him to his stupid computer becasue it will be all he has in the end. |
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Ron J
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| Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 10:23 am Post subject: |
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| Why don't you chat with strange men on the internet and show him how it feels. E-mail me. |
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lisa
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| Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 10:25 am Post subject: |
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| I would divorce him/\... He is a cheater! He cannot be trusted |
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melia
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| Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 10:36 am Post subject: |
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| you've told him and he hasn't stopped and you are letting him control you and he is making you feel is your fault as hes made you lose all your self confidence and belief in yourself.I would be gone or he would be gone, hes a loser and a player and disrespectful and WHY would you want to be with someone who doesn't have the basic respect for you as a person. He is very selfish and you are letting him walk all over you so he will keep doing it.Ultimatum time, no more talking to other women, different if are pals he has from before but he shouldn't be making new pals and ringing and texting non stop, what a loser, but he will keep doing it once you let him. He stops or else its over and stick to your guns.I would be gone or he would be gone as respect myself more than having a man treat me like that, rather be alone as have peace of mind and pride and self respect, don't need a man bringing you down like that as you do deserve better.Don't mean to sound harsh but stand up for yourself hon. |
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badgirlsbadboy
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| Posted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 10:52 am Post subject: |
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| well get on his computer and you go into a chat room or find someone to chat with or text bet he will be asking you who your talking too and have his jealous moment |
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