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samprice
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 Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 10:07 pm Post subject: ex-husband wants to stop support for his son? |
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| ex-husband want to stop support for his son he hasnt paid support for his son since may 5 2008 ,this is when my son went to visit his uncle for the summer but iam sending support to my brother for my son can my ex's support stop because my son is visiting his uncle my ex said too he wanted to stop support because he doesnt have a job ... and my son quit school he is 17 but when he comes back he either goes back to school or night classes my ex-husband hasnt seen his son in 3 yrs. and hasnt bought him any birthday gifts or christmas gifts since he came to live at my residence but now my son is 17 and haveing a little problems and it is all because of him not visiting him and being a dad he feels left out because he has 3 other kids with his wife and 2 more with me and they all get gifts .... except for my son.... can my ex stop support if my son isnt here for the summer months even though iam sending support to my brother on may 5th when he left , will child support be stopped!!!iam still supporting my son my brother is gonna write me a letter to the friend of the court i hope they accept it iam the only one right now supporting my son my ex isnt and why isnt the child place more considerate about your feelingsi dont have a lawyer and have to go to court june 11th at 9:00 am.my exhusband doesnt wanna pay support he told my son's girlfriend who is 25 he almost lost his house because it is too high |
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Ciao_Bella
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| Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 10:10 pm Post subject: |
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| Take him to court. |
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Heather
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| Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 10:11 pm Post subject: |
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| child support can only be stooped by a judge or when your son turns 18. go to court and file to get his tax returns until he is paid up, they take it from him so its not his choice to send it. |
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Liz
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| Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 10:12 pm Post subject: |
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| What makes you think you will get an informed answer here? We are all laymen here and all you will get is different people's opinions. If you want the hard facts (i.e. what the law says), you need to speak to an attorney. |
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Iris
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| Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 10:12 pm Post subject: |
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| Child support cannot be stopped (legally) without a judge's approval. Contact your lawyer and inform him of what your ex plans to do. He can't stop unless he is able to show that he is fincially incapable of supporting his son.In most states, they will take his driver's licence away untill he pays the minimum amount set by the judge.Don't listen to him.I would make him feel guilty for not wanting to support your son, but please, don't put oyur son in the middle or let him find out what's going on unitl he is older. |
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Crossfire Kelly
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| Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 10:12 pm Post subject: |
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| He can not stop support just because he wants to. He must still pay. Call or go by your state attorney general's office if you need more help here. They will help the best they can. It will be difficult to make him pay if he really isn't employed. What a jerk. Why is he taking this out on his son? He doesn't deserve to have kids. |
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maymaydrummer08
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| Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 10:12 pm Post subject: |
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| I agree take him to court if he doesn't wanna help with a little bit a money then sue the dude for all he owns |
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Travis T
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| Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 10:13 pm Post subject: |
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| this question cant be answered totally because it can or cant be stopped it would depend on the court but if he lives with you you definetly have to receive support now if hes away its the court decision but if you are sending your brother money to pay for him you should be collecting child support i wish i could answer this better but i really cant i hope your son is better and he feels betther |
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chereke j
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| Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 10:13 pm Post subject: |
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| no your son is still in your custody even when he is visiting. Just cause he don't have job don't mean nothing. He may stop paying now but when he files income tax it will come to you, so if he want to be stupid. . . let him. . continue to do you and ask god to guide your son back on the right track. |
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The Mrs.
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| Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 10:17 pm Post subject: |
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| If he dropped out of high school in may be okay to stop support in some courts. You need to talk to a lawyer about what your options are. |
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Tapioca
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| Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 10:19 pm Post subject: |
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| Let him try. report him for non payment. He has to pay until he finishes school. Get the kid back in school. He cannot stop support as his legal address is with you and you are the custodial parent. NO, don't bring your brother into it unless you have to. |
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Peter M
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| Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 4:08 am Post subject: |
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| talk to tiyr ex first about his relationship with the son,don;t bring up the moneygo to court, he probably won;t show up so, you win |
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Maitee M
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| Posted: Sun Jun 08, 2008 8:29 am Post subject: |
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| This is simple, you dont need a lawyer, you will apear personally, as soon as you start the hearing the judge will probably ask what the problem is and you will explain that he hasnt paid child support and so on, regardless if your son is in your house, your brothers house, your mothers or anywhere else, he cant stop paying just because he wants to stop paying! If he wants to stop paying, he has to go to court and ask a judge to close his case but if he does not do this he has to continue with the payments until the judge says so...now I do understand that if your son is no longer in school or isnt planning on going back, he can probably get off the child support because he is no longger a minor, he can provide for himself as soon as he gets a job, but every state is different. you should be able to find that info on the web page for the state that you live in, look for the child support offices on the page. Good luck. |
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