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Doc1977
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 Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:03 am Post subject: Is she a Golddigger? |
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| I am a 32 yr old Dr. I have been dating a young lady for about 3 weeks. I have wined and dined her and purchased gifts for her under $1000. Anyway, recently, she asked me for a $11, 000 loan b/c her car is about to get repossessed. She said she would pay me back in accordance with a monthly payment plan. I told her I would think about it. However, there is no way I am going to loan her the money. Still, at this point, I am not sure if I should continue to date her because she may be trying to use me. Do you think I am correct? Also, she told me the other day that she changed her mind about the loan b/c it doesn't feel right but she later retracted and informed me that she would give me her decision next week as to whether she still wants the loan. This made me think that she may not be trying to use me but just really needs the money. In any event, I am not giving her 11K. However, I am not sure if I should also get rid of her. |
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J Swizzler7
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:08 am Post subject: |
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| Get rid of her... That is a lot of money to ask of someone you have only dated 3 months... she is a gold digger and your gut is telling you so , just listen to your gut i know you hear it. |
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Ripso
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:08 am Post subject: |
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| ouch, sorry to say this but ya she's a golddigger alright,,, when you said ull think about it she thought about it too and realized that maybe she made it too obvious that she's after ur dollars so she tried to tune it down, stay as farr away as possible, she manipulating u big time!!! |
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RichUser
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:09 am Post subject: |
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| With only being 3 weeks with her, her only goal is to take your money. No human being who has respect for themselves and their partner in love would request such a sum of money. Leave her, she's a waste. |
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chuck
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:09 am Post subject: |
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| guess what, ALL girls are gold diggers to some extent. sounds like youve got a pro gold digger on your hands, so the best thing to do would be to stop buying her shit and do NOT give her the $11k. dont even bang her anymore, cause she'll drop a fake pregnancy on you. |
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Chanel F
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:09 am Post subject: |
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| omg... after 3 weeks? definitely i'd be careful if i were you |
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SirHitsalot
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:10 am Post subject: |
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| She just want a broke aggin!!!!! |
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La
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:10 am Post subject: |
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| What?!? Who does that? That is crazy! Yes, get rid of her and date a nice girl who will not try to use you as a bank. If she's doing this now and you've dated for 3 weeks, it will get exponentially worse. |
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Brooke E
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:11 am Post subject: |
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| see yahhh ! |
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Joe
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:11 am Post subject: |
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| Where is the issue? Of course get rid of her if you don't think she has potential. UNLESS you are getting more then $11,000 worth of enjoyment from her company. It depends if you see this as a relationship or fun. I am in a very similar situation to yours... in fact, much too similar. As smug as I may be, I decided, you know what... whats a few thousand dollars to have this kind of fun? You may be a better man then I though. I hope you are. But it's your choice really. I doubt money is the real issue here. Is she a gold digger.... yup, sure is. 99% of women I meet like me because of the almighty dollar. Just keep in mind what YOUR intentions are too and nobody gets hurt feelings. |
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~Demi~
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:11 am Post subject: |
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| YEA DUMP HER ASS!SHEZA GOLD DIGGA! |
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Krissy
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:12 am Post subject: |
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| GOLDDIGGER |
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tinkerbell052494
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:12 am Post subject: |
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| wow ur a doctor and cant figure this SIMPLE problem out?! shes totally using u its only been 3 weeks! she obviously has u wraped around her finger if ur still thinking bout getting rid of her. i would drop her quik!and dont listen to chuck, thats soo not true that all women are gold diggers, thats a stereo type. it would be like me saying all men are !d!ot jerks. it's not true i just based that on chuck. and don't worry about every getting a women pregnant cuz ur personality will be ur birth control! |
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Maithy T
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:12 am Post subject: |
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| wow that alots of money and you only know her for three weeks! well if she continue to ask for money then just dump her but if she stopped with this loan thing and not ask for anything more then keep going with her |
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nikki
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 11:24 am Post subject: |
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| I think that shes trying to use you and by telling you it doesnt feel right i guess she expected you to comfort her and tell her its okay, but by you not doing that she reconsidered the situation. If you guys were married then i might understand but i highly doubt you would get any of that money back without going to court so u shouldnt give it to her. You should get rid of her or at least take a break and dont' tell her you'll think about the loan tell her no straight up . She probably asked like 10 other dudes.Loose her shes a gold digger. |
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