Okay, My girlfriend and I have been together for just over a year, we both have our ups and down....
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anthony k Yahoo User
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Posted: Sun Aug 03, 2008 11:33 pm Post subject: Okay, My girlfriend and I have been together for just over a year, we both have our ups and down.... |
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| We manage, because i stress communication. I am perfect in almost everyway. I dont take her for granted, I treat her very well, we go out to eat, dinner, movies, I have even managed to take her to a Play and shopping one time. Her family like me, she says she love me. However, she is not very humble, and kind of takes me for granted. She expects me to wait for her because she is a virgin, to quote her.During the past 2 months, on our anniversary, she had to go on this Louisiana trip for 4 days. Since she had to work the day before she left, i got a gift and brought her dinner. Though she said she will get me somethin when she got back, she didnt get me anything and said she forgot. I began a new job by the time she returned so i couldnt get to go out with her as i wanted. Then she begun a month-long precollege program that is rigorous and requires ardous work. So i could not call her or hardly spend time with her, also because of my work schedule.I still will call her, to at least say hi, but i talk to her mom instead, and she tells me how she is doing.The last day I spoke to my girlfriend, i spoke to her for about 10 minutes, then she battled with me for 5 trying to make me late for work:) I told her i will call her, I love her, bye, and she told me I love you. And I havent heard from her since...Course I called her... but after not being called back at that time, I did not call her and now wait for her call.I have decided that if she doesnt call me by the 11th of August then I should just move on.I'm asking for anyone and everyone's opinion, suggestion, and/or advice on this situation.Like i dont ask her to buy me gifts, i dont do all those things to win her over or get favors in return. And the virgin thing she isnt waiting for marriage. And I'm never to busy to call her, even when i am, i still call because i am willing to make time for her. She has not even once simce then called to say hi, good morning or good night. Its not that im thinking of moving on because i want to be with her but im being taken for granted. And she's not busy at all. Im a very understanding guy and im there when she needs me. When her father past, i was there, when her sister got pregnant and she was blaming herself, i talked to her, when she needed money for a bill, though she was afraid to ask me, i gave her the money( i read her mind), and i am a very patient person... very patient.If she does call, then we will talk about what took place and has happened but its just muy dificil.THANK YOU! |
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las vegas Yahoo User
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Posted: Sun Aug 03, 2008 11:39 pm Post subject: |
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| She is not appreciative like you, you are giving in and putting effort towards your relationship! its not fair why are you with a person ike her? who cant even call you back to wish you a Good night....(selfish) dont you think? |
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H.R. Yahoo User
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Posted: Sun Aug 03, 2008 11:56 pm Post subject: |
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| Your situation is kind of tough. You seem to be putting in a lot in the relationship; trying to make it work and what not. By the way you put it, you make it seem as if she hardly cares. What I think is that she feels as if she has you. You know? Because you're so caring and all she doesn't feel that she has to do anything because you already belong to her and she feels secure. Since you call her all the time I guess she's gotten used to it and believes there is no point in her calling since you're going to call. She might care about you ALOT but doesn't feel the need or motivation to do anything. She just might be lazy thats all. The question you have to ask yourself is if thats what you want for the rest of your life? My suggestion is that you call her and talk to her about it. People here can give you suggestions and all but none of us are her. Maybe if you move on, I suggest next time you don't do too much. Sure women say they like that kind of guy but once they get the perfect guy they get bored. I don't know why, but they are just like that. (No offence ladies and i'm sure that some of you aren't like that but that is my opinion and observation). |
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