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anthony k
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 7:14 am    Post subject: Please Respond!!!!Okay, My girlfriend and I have been together for just over a year... Reply with quote

We manage, because i stress communication. I am perfect in almost everyway. I dont take her for granted, I treat her very well, we go out to eat, dinner, movies, I have even managed to take her to a Play and shopping one time. Her family like me, she says she love me. However, she is not very humble, and kind of takes me for granted. She expects me to wait for her because she is a virgin, to quote her.During the past 2 months, on our anniversary, she had to go on this Louisiana trip for 4 days. Since she had to work the day before she left, i got a gift and brought her dinner. Though she said she will get me somethin when she got back, she didnt get me anything and said she forgot. I began a new job by the time she returned so i couldnt get to go out with her as i wanted. Then she begun a month-long precollege program that is rigorous and requires ardous work. So i could not call her or hardly spend time with her, also because of my work schedule.The program ended on the 25th of july.I still will call her, to at least say hi, but i talk to her mom instead, and she tells me how she is doing.The last day I spoke to my girlfriend, i spoke to her for about 10 minutes, then she battled with me for 5 trying to make me late for work:) I told her i will call her, I love her, bye, and she told me I love you. And I havent heard from her since...Course I called her... but after not being called back at that time, I did not call her and now wait for her call.I have decided that if she doesnt call me by a certain amount of time then I should just move on.I'm asking for anyone and everyone's opinion, suggestion, and/or advice on this situation.Like i dont ask her to buy me gifts, i dont do all those things to win her over or get favors in return. And the virgin thing she isnt waiting for marriage. And I'm never to busy to call her, even when i am, i still call because i am willing to make time for her. She has not even once simce then called to say hi, good morning or good night. Its not that im thinking of moving on because i want to be with her but im being taken for granted. And she's not busy at all. Im a very understanding guy and im there when she needs me. When her father past, i was there, when her sister got pregnant and she was blaming herself, i talked to her, when she needed money for a bill, though she was afraid to ask me, i gave her the money( i read her mind), and i am a very patient person... very patient.If she does call, then we will talk about what took place and has happened but its just muy dificil.THANK YOU!
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skomski
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 7:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you love her alot and think she loves you asmuch, then you either give her another chance or move on. Dont call her, wait until she makes a move. She maybe wants a break but talk to her, but make sure she makes some effort in this relationship. Good luck.
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Richard L
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 7:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

well guy u r playing to be her husband i think u have to move on, u r kind of pushing guy, and definetly u girl is not interesting on you, even for sex, maybe u need a different girl, a girl that u can manage so easy or a girl who needs u help (money free dates $)Well lets drop the personal things -your caracther- and check the attituds, she never call you..bad..she does not have any interest in you, u never had sex with her because of the virgin thing..!!! is only BS sorry man lets move, maybe there are other girls for you..Now man u have to change never said that u r perfect!!! never said that u need a humble girl!! man we are in 2008, and man never never feel good if u like or the parents like you, parents parents dont care about youuuuuuuuuuuuuuu !!!! eye!!!
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