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Tarheel Girl 08
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 Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 11:26 am Post subject: Forgive him or keep ignoring him? |
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| I had a guy friend who made me mad about a month ago. I have not responded to his emails, texts, or anything. He sent me a letter of apology via snail mail and flowers. He sent me a gift basket today with a note that hes moving back overseas in about a week, he pushed up the date, due to a death in his family, and that I may never see him again and for me to read a message that he sent me in an email. He said he was afraid to call me, due to my hanging up on him. Should I patch up things with him and forgive him or just keep ignoring him? |
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Betsy B
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| Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 11:32 am Post subject: |
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| He's obviously very apologetic that he made you angry, and to keep ignoring him woulf probably crush the poor guy. Hear what he has to say, then make your own call.Good luck x |
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redbaron998
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| Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 11:32 am Post subject: |
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| You should always try, and since he is moving away why not.A potential friend is a terrible thing to waste |
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JB
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| Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 11:36 am Post subject: |
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| Depends on what he did, I suppose. He's done everything he can to make good with you. Unless he cheated on you, killed someone, or something at that level then maybe the mature thing to do is accept his apology and let it go. |
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The Capricorn
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| Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 11:42 am Post subject: |
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| I think you should forgive him, not many people apologize for their mistakes. Forgiving will make your position a lot stronger as a friend and you'll feel good inside, but if you don't then you'll be on the bad side of it, and you'll feel guilty and regret later on. |
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tomcat
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| Posted: Tue Aug 12, 2008 12:33 pm Post subject: |
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| in my opinion its better thatu forgive him becausethe others havent need of my kindnesswe need of forgive themfor experince of being humani can forgive thenI AM.butyou should be catious and answer this question1)did him ignore yourself really?why?2)are u going to be with him?u willl be logic its the best for u.in the one step confine your intimate tritory wit himand waiting for his respondWE HAVE TO RESPOND OF GOOD OMENBY |
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