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Mrs Brandon
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Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:12 am Post subject: Does your bf loves you if he gives you expensive gifts?

If a guy gives his woman gifts as follows, does it mean he loves her? Are these expressions of his love for her?1) Valentines: A hot pink Motorazr V3x with a card2) B-day: Red roses, chocolate and a Bvlgari jewelry.3)Christmas: A lovely dress and an Omega watch.No, I don't have bf. I'm just wondering how much do gifts especially expensive signify a guy's love for a woman.And, if he always pays for dinner and all expenses whenever they go out-of-town.P.S. Never had bf and never received a gift from a guy.

chaminda l
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:14 am Post subject:

Money, gifts, and words don't mean anything.What matters is:honestygoalsrespectmaturityloyalty

sweetashess
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:15 am Post subject:

nope! my ex splurges on me but treats me like shit whever he feels like it.if a man loves ya, he'll respect ya, period.

♥Joyful ╬ Hope♥
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:16 am Post subject:

If he respects and treats you well that would be more of a sign of love rather then how expensive a gift he gives you. Any guy can shower a women with gifts but it doesn't mean that he loves her.Even an abusive guy can be nice and give expensive gifts. As some guys can also be also like that too.Love is a very unselfish thing which causes a person to think more of you in the highest regard and best wishes.

Kren777
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:17 am Post subject:

Actually it depends.. on his income.If a man is willing to spend most of his free money on you... he wants you quite badly.But THOSE gifts from anyone who makes ... say 60,000 plus a year... that's not love. LOVE isn't physical gifts at all actually.It's cooking for you... or DOING something for you. A gift is NICE, it's surprising, it's GREAT, but nothing says I LOVE YOU like a night of total attention.

enjoyrselves
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:18 am Post subject:

This is a tough question. It depends on the guy, I'd say. No, typically gifts don't necessarily mean 'love'. Could be showing off, trying to make another person jealous, maybe enticing the girl to get physical with him. Then again, there are plenty of guys that grew up in homes where they saw nice gifts given out of love. So, that could be exactly what it means. There is no yes or no to this answer without knowing the people involved. Never judge a book by it's cover. You see what I mean?

DiscoQueen
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:18 am Post subject:

It all depends on the guy if he is willing spend on a woman. My man does not spend much on me like buying diamonds or jewelry or anything expensive (because both of us are working people and I can afford the things I want) but that does not mean that he doesn't love me. I guess material things can't be measured to how much love or feelings for that matter. You should know it in your heart.

LoVeLy
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:18 am Post subject:

They could be expressions of love. They could also be expressions of trying to buy this person's love. I personally think that it depends on a lot of variables, such as: How long have the two of them been together? How serious is the relationship? If the couple had been together, say, one or 2 years, these sorts of gifts should seem relatively normal. However, if they've only been together for let's say, between 3-6 months, this could indicate trying to "buy" someone's love or affection.

Scotte_B
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:19 am Post subject:

Make sure that he would not be trying buy you with lavish gifts.

Saffy
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:19 am Post subject:

Money is not an indication of love. For some one who has lots of it, it would be the easiest thing to part with. I would say the attention to the type of gifts bought and wether he made the effort to find out what you really like matters more than the monetary value of the gift

Eat My Shorts
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:20 am Post subject:

It depends on the reward system,If you give your girl a gift and you receive amorous love from it then it is the reward system.Same as if your pet does something good you reward it with a tit bit.Bartering of material things for emotions.Human behavior.

judy bo-booty
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:21 am Post subject:

No. It means he has money. He may love her but how much he spends on her doesnt equal how much he loves her. If a poor man didny buy expensive things for his woman, does it mean he doesnt love her? no. Money shows no LOVE value. It could also meen he wants to get laid. What a woman should worry about, rather than counting gifts as love, is showing the man that neither her love or body can be bought.

ChloeDee
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:23 am Post subject:

i think men are very limited in their ability to express emotions.money is their power, and sometimes - key word, SOMETIMES- reaching into their pockets is an easy way to express love.other times though, the guy just is loose with his money and it doesn't mean anything.so i guess it depends on the situation.

Desperate Loser
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:23 am Post subject:

No, it doesn't mean he loves you at all. He may or may not love you.What it means is that he knows how a woman works. Expensive = good.

joe b
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2007 2:27 am Post subject:

I'd say for most guys, if a guy gives a woman gifts of any kind, it's a sign he loves her.But love it better expressed by day to day actions. i.e. How does he treat her the rest of the time? If he treats her like cr&p, but buys her fancy jewelry, that's not really love.

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