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Lingerie + sexy black heels as wedding gift. Is it appropriate?

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libenyo
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 5:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

No something for the house maybe a wall hanging a decoration for the living roomleave the lingerie for the hubby to take care of
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mariemlm
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 5:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

no - not appropriatedid the wedding invitation give any indication re gifts ie gift registry?yes - must be for the couple - something for the house, kitchen, linen perhaps.ask the bride or groom for a wish list .
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helen b
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 5:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Something for the couple helping them to set up home together is best. if they've been living together for ages and their house is already sorted, then vouchersa re always good. Friends of ours asked for vouchers from a travel agent to help towards the honeymoon....loads of us took them up on their suggestion and they were able to go away .....the cost of the wedding had left them with no funds for a honeymoon, so this was a great way of helping.
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sez75
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 5:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i def wouldn't go for sexy undies etc as it is for a wedding gift not an orgy if not sure ask them or give them voucher or money in a card.
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The Death Bunny
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 5:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

my friends wife got a similar gift from here sister, when they got married. she thought it was funny.I guess you get away with it - as a woman giving a gift to a woman (it would not be appropriate for a guy to give it)It is a pretty personal gift....It depends how close you are to the person you're giving it to.
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Chelsea Shrimper
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 5:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Depends on whether the groom wears that sort of thing!! Seriously depends on the couple...How easy going are they??? personally I would be glad of a present like that as I would get enjoyment out of seeing my bride on our wedding night in a saucy little number!! Others may feel that ligerie as a wedding present is not suitable.
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anothe
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 5:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Since you two are close friends, I think it's cool. If you were just some cousin or old college friend, it would be different, but that sounds cool and fun. I'd add some massage oils and maybe a tiny vibrator in as well. Sex toys would definitely spice things up, if not together, it would spice up her masturbations sessions which would allow for better sex in the long run. If you're not sure, why not a gift card for a sex shop? Then the two of them can go together and pick out some fun things. Have fun!
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LISA uk
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 6:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i would give ann summers gift card to play it safe
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capoeirista
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 6:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

only you know your friend, if u think that she would enjoy or get a kcik out of it it sounds like a good idea, if shes a proper girl that has to have everything her way then maybe not as good of an idea.you be the judge, but if you do give it, make sure you specify on the card not to open in public or fun for the honeymoon so she wont open it in front of her parents
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Des
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 6:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think its very nice but not something I would give for her to open in front of others!! I say go with it! You know she loves shoes-like you-and lingerie will definitely help spice things up!!
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fairypelican
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 6:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

if you are a close friend - how come you haven't met her man if she has been with him for 10 years?/that aside - i think the idea is AWESOME - go for it as others have said you would know what she would like
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Mr_Blue_Eyes_27
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 6:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Bad Idea for a formal wedding gift. It is something that could be given at a bridal shower.
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Kat
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 7:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If your question were: "Is this appropriate for a wedding shower?" I would say yes. But for a wedding, no. Often couples will open their wedding gifts together with their family at home....I for one would be embarrassed to pull out some sexy lingerie and shoes in front of my family. Wedding gifts are for the couple together. Choose a gift appropriate for the both of them. (I know..lingerie is somewhat for both of them..but you know what I mean)However, a bridal shower is for the bride to be showered with gifts from her female friends and family. This is the place to give naughty gifts, gag gifts and other potentially embarrassing things. The bride to be opens the gifts in front of just the other girls...so everyone can oooh and aaah and giggle. So, please rethink this gift for the wedding. If you are invited to the shower, give the lingerie there.
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Kads
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 7:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Excellent idea
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Square moon
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2007 7:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

One of my wife's friends (a girl was her class mate) had given a pair of bra and panty (very sexy looking) on our wedding as a gift and told my wife to wear it on our first night. We both laughed very much in the night for such an idiotic idea of her friend.
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