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sakic_cikas
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 Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 10:40 pm Post subject: How should i go about giving this girl a gift? |
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| here's the deal- (in high school) i sit next to this girl with a bubbly, sweet personality. i've only known her for a couple of weeks, but im fairly certain theres some good chemistry. i'm unsure thou, cuz she could just be being friendly. i def. dig her. anyways she mentioned her b-day is in a couple of days, so i want to give her a gift that she will appreciate. im not necessarily looking to ask her out, rather im trying to let her know shes on my mind and i think she is amazing. i'd like to give her flowers, but i dont know how i should do it. im not afraid to do it in person, but how? if i was getting her a gift card i could hand it to her during class, but flowers are different. Please ladies (or guys w/ experience)- whats the best way for me to give her flowers? |
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Lin Wu
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| Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 10:47 pm Post subject: |
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| First, you want to make sure that the flowers aren't roses. Try something pretty and bold to match her personality: sunflowers, lilies, etc. In case she isn't romantically interested in you, then you'd be okay. Next, don't get her a whole bunch. Really. That's overload, and causes really awkward situations for both her and you. Anywhere from 1-3 if good, I think.You could give her a beautiful card, and simple flower. Be cool about it, don't stutter, just say something like, "Oh, yeah, btw, happy birthday." Don't overdo it too much. Something simple will work, and if she likes you, she'll be blown away by your thoughtfulness. Good luck. |
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Aimee C
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| Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 10:47 pm Post subject: |
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| OK so here is the deal, If you can have the flowers sent to her at home. Or you can get her a card and a single flower. Never do red roses for the first time as they mean love. I would rather have a single flower than a whole bunch. |
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♥forgetmenot♥
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| Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 10:48 pm Post subject: |
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| put them on her desk with a note saying happy birthday from you, not a long one. thats so cute! if thats too romantic for you just give them to her in person and say "hey, happy birthday!" and smile. its not too hard. if there are flowers involved (or chocolate) then its all good. |
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minicoopers51
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| Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 10:49 pm Post subject: |
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| Ask her for a favor to go shopping with your and say that you are looking for a gift for your Mom or young auntie from across town. Then make remark such as if you were my mom what color, what will you like etc. Then Pick up that item wrapped it up and before you leave take a photo with her. then on the day give her the gift and the photo with the b'day wish and include that you had a nice time with her shopping, |
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Nanking Massacre
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| Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 10:51 pm Post subject: |
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| Go to her house, and give them to her personally. A card would be good as well. Don't try and push a relationship with this girl, if she isn't attracted to you, you'll lose her. They always say " we can still be friends". but it's never the same after that. Trust me i know. Give it some time, be patient and know for sure that she's attracted to you before you make any moves. |
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