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Arizel
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 Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 11:40 am Post subject: b-day gift gone totally wrong? |
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| Yesterday was my bf’s 19th b-day and we decided to celebrate it at his new apartment. So after school I drove over there to give him my very personal gift, when I knew no one would be there and he would be alone before his b-day/housewarming party. I bought a cake my black bikini, and high heels. I walked in and sat the cake down and I started to dance around him as I stripped down to my bikini, and sung the happy b-day song. He smiled, and laughed at my bad singing. And afterwards when I went to give him a little b-day kiss he picked me up and laid me down on the floor and we started making out. every thing was going so fast. And since I was wearing little to nothing it wasn’t that hard for him to undress me. he untied my top and started kissing my breast and caressing me. and it felt so good. I didn’t even know my top was off until he started pulling at my panties. that’s when I told him No, and kept telling me to relax, and I had to tell him no at least 3 times before he stopped. He got so mad at me, he didn’t say anything but I could see it in his face, and he started slamming things around. As I got dressed I told him that I was sorry that I just wasn’t ready. Then he just exploded. He started yelling about how I always do this….you’re such a f***ing tease….how it pisses him off blah blah blah. And we started arguing and I left because I was upset, and mad that he didn’t like my gift. I thought he would find it cute and fun, I guess I was wrong. Why can’t he understand I’m a 17 year old virgin and I’m not ready. So he called me and left a message saying how he missed me on his b-day and that he was sorry for blowing up.Then he left another message saying how he was sorry and to call him.The next message was that he can’t believe that I got mad because he wanted sex. That he can’t f**ing believe that I stayed a virgin this long with all the teasing I do. “d*** you get me so f**ing horny, then you leave. It makes me so mad. Your so selfish and you ruined my b-day D*** it I love you. I’m sorry, call me.”What do you think? And do most guys at like little b**** after they don’t get any, all these message mood swings. |
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Smitty2007
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| Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 11:49 am Post subject: |
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| im in a similar situation to your boyfriend, being a 17yr old guy, my gf is 18 and not ready yet, which is frustrating because its been a fair few months.your bf probs thought that your bday present to him would be sex but ur just nt ready.i would put it down to a one off mood swing and cut him some slack for his bday as he is obv 19 and ready an doing well to wait 4 u. |
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RockStar
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| Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 11:51 am Post subject: |
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| Okay, first of all you teased him. When I was reading what your question and what happend I thought that you were going to give him a sexual dance and then for him to have sex with you. You cant do that to a guy unless you are ready to have sex with him. You are making him horny and then what is he supposed to do? Sit there with a hard on? If your not ready to give it up to him then dont be wearing skimpy outfit around him and DONT TEASE him, dont straddle him ect. They hate that! Every single one of them. |
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chrissyopal
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| Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 11:54 am Post subject: |
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| First off your seventeen why are you surprising your bf with striping to your bikini? And he shouldn't be mad but why the hell are you going over there in your bikini if you don't want to do the deed? I mean don't put yourself into unnecessary situations. He sounds like a jerk that's been unnecessarily tempted and you sound like a confused kid. Look the fact of the matter is if you don't want to do the effing deed DON'T go around in your blasted bikini SURPRISING people! Beside you should wait your too young and not ready! |
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le bird
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| Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 12:10 pm Post subject: |
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| sounds like you and your bf seriously need to communicate. Tell him plainly how you feel. Be clear that even though you love him, you just aren't ready for sex. Tell him exactly and clearly--this is key--what you are and are not ready for. you might think that this takes some of the romance out of it, but guys need things spelled out for them sometimes. It concerns me that he has such anger issues and cusses at you. Remember--he has NO right to disrespect you, whether it's physically, mentally, or emotionally. Never give in to something that you aren't completely comfortable with. If he still won't listen to you or respect you, it's time to leave. |
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Mandy O
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 7:35 pm Post subject: |
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| he does not respect you so move on. For the future, being a tease never leads to good things unless that is what you want. if your not ready, dont tease. |
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