XMAS at family gathering my sister gave my son gag gift long sleve shirt,gloves, ornament 4 tree jail door?
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Phyllis W. Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 25, 2007 3:29 am Post subject: XMAS at family gathering my sister gave my son gag gift long sleve shirt,gloves, ornament 4 tree jail door? |
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| son is 19 an has put tattoo's on arms and hands.it upset me when she told me what she had done,she didnt tell me about ornament i for worn my son of her gag so when she gave it to him he sat it aside being the bigger person an left without it ....she noticed that he left it , she an i and her son (who has baby on the way senior in school gf junior),step mom were talking an she brought the bag over too table.I told her that i told him cas i didn't want him to get upset. sister said did u see his ornament? said no so her son reach into the bag an pulled out a jail house door OMG!!!! she hurt my feels so bad that i do not care to speak or see her again. my son has never did time, only arrested once in his teens. she did this because she doesnt like his tattoos...please help i am hurting on a special day christmas, son is a terrific guy....A TRUE MOTHER ALWAYS TRYS TO PROTECT HER CHILDREN, for his a man an do what he wants in life now..... sadden in heart an soul from my own SISTERsister hurt me thru giving MY son a gag gift for christmas cas he has tattoo's on his body. how do i deal with such a hurtful way of sister's actions? |
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gpny19 Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 25, 2007 3:33 am Post subject: |
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| sounds like your son doesn't love you and wishes your sister was his mother instead. happy holidays. |
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RussianBride Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 25, 2007 3:36 am Post subject: |
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| You make No sense. |
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Zyggy Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 25, 2007 3:36 am Post subject: |
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| Tell your sister that it wasn't a funny gift, and that her passive aggressive nature is not attractive. Then enjoy the holiday with your son and your other family members. |
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Frank P Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 25, 2007 4:56 am Post subject: |
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| BAD DRUGS or SNIFFIN' INK? |
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LIPPIE Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Dec 25, 2007 7:06 am Post subject: |
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| I believe she gave him what she wanted to give. It is up to him to accept it or not, and he didn't. He let her know that he didn't like it by leaving the gift behind. You said he is a MAN, so let him handle is own problems. I'm sure he will be able to take care of the issue just fine. I don't know how you think you are protecting him. I don't understand why she bought what she did, but she will figure out that what someone thinks as funny isn't. Your sister doesn't have to like his tattoos, and she will find out that she has her own burden to carry when she becomes a grandmother. If you don't want to be around her, then stay away. |
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barryoffshore Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Jan 01, 2008 8:59 am Post subject: |
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| Get over it already... it was just a joke. If your son doesn't like getting kidded about his tattoo's, he shouldn't have gotten them. Sounds to me like you are the one who is ashamed of his tat's. You need to look at the gift as what it is - just a silly gag gift. Jeez - you are a grown woman... act like it. |
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