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Jenny S
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Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 2:48 pm Post subject: please respond, I really need your opinion! why would he do that?

alright...well, my ex boyfriend has been an *** lately. Being negative all the time, lazy and abusive...so I asked him to go stay at his mother's house for a few days, so we could have some time to sort things out. (I was thinking he'd have time to realize what a jerk je's been)...well 3 days later he was supposed to come home, but he was still being a jerk so I left him a message saying that I thought maybe we still needed some time apart.....(I didn't know he's been christmas shopping for me all day) well he shows up at my house with his mother and says, I just want to drop off your gifts and I'll go back to my moms house tomarrow...I said ok. THEN...he started being nice again, we made love and snuggled all night. He got up in the morning, said " I'm glad we had our last romp, you're a great f#$@".....then he packed all of his things and asked me to take him to his mother's house. Wouldn't he know that would hurt me? 2 years together....was he being spiteful? Did he mean to hurt me?

marie
Yahoo User

Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 2:52 pm Post subject:

Of course he meant to hurt you. Do you think he thought that was the best way to leave and still be on amicable terms with you? The guy sounds like a royal pain in the arse and is better off living with his mommy.

tayah_smith
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Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 2:53 pm Post subject:

dont lower your standards stay strong leave him alone once hehits u 1 he gonna keep doing it

Cecilia M
Yahoo User

Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 2:53 pm Post subject:

is this the same guy you just tried to get revenge on by sending gay looking naked pictures of him to alot of people in rodeo? It is no wonder he is treating you like this.

hotlilchick1127
Yahoo User

Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 2:54 pm Post subject:

i think he meant to hurt you at least a little bit in revenge and if he's abusive, why did you even let him come back?

Rose Marie
Yahoo User

Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 2:54 pm Post subject:

It sounds like he's being a dick, or is just an all around jerkoff all the time. Don't get fooled by him being nice-- you saw it. He was nice so he could have sex with you, which he considered "your last romp". That's NOT okay. You deserve way, WAY better than that. He of course knows that would hurt you to do something like that. I think he's probably trying to hurt you, trying to get you into this confused, hurt stage you're at right now. I personally wouldn't crumble. You can stand strong without some abusive twit and not come crawling back to him, which it sounds like he's angling for. You stay strong. Let him come crawling back-- and then make a decision: Do you take back an ABUSIVE dick?(PS. The answer is no. You don't. You are better than abuse, hon.)

Cat Lady
Yahoo User

Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 2:54 pm Post subject:

This guy sounds like an immature bozo. You really need to kick him to the curb, unless you like being humiliated and abused. Then he's perfect for you.

sugadoot
Yahoo User

Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 2:57 pm Post subject:

Please tell me you DID NOT take him to his mother's after he said that?? Yes he was trying to be spiteful and hurt you, why else would he say that. You're a dumbass if you did take him to his house, I would've put his ass out and told him to figure it out how he was gonna get home. Be glad that you don't have to deal with his negative ass. Sounds like he was waiting to break up with you if he was just recently being all mean to you. So be happy that its over and move on!! Okay, after reading your other posts, sounds like you two may be made for each other, 2 wrongs don't make a right. Stop acting immature and grow up!!

J F
Yahoo User

Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 2:58 pm Post subject:

Just think how you might have felt had he sent you off to your mom's because you were being a b----. You probably would have been pissed off too. Whether he was an ass or not, sending him home to his mom's wasn't really a great way to deal with the situation. Granted, it is not always easy to deal face-to-face, but that would have been the mature thing to do. Sounds like maybe things wouldn't have worked out that great anyway.

American Beauty
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Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 3:03 pm Post subject:

Does this guy work? Why is everybody carting him around? When you told him to leave, you should have left it at that. You were so excited about the gifts, that you walked into a huge trap. When he packed all his things the next morning, you should have told him to call his mama. Why take him home, after he's humiliated you? You're too weak. Better get some strength of character!

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