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Samantha S
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Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 7:48 pm Post subject: does he really love me?

I have been dating this boy for a little over a year. And I have fallen in love with him. He says he loves me but sometimes I wonder how he can love me. We haven't really seen each other that much since before Christmas and we finally decided to exchange Christmas gifts today. (I know long overdo) I wanted it to be special but he didn't even care he was about to just hand it to me and leave. So I got mad and I just gave him his gift and left. I didn’t get mine. But at that point I didn’t even care. He had made me so upset. And on top of that he didn’t even try to stop me; he didn’t even call me today. What should I do? {This is just one example of the things he does that makes me think if he really loves me or even cares}

shmamy
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 7:51 pm Post subject:

I'm not sure I understand how this is even a relationship?

ymyyujyjy y
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 7:51 pm Post subject:

He's over it honey. Move on.

Gracie
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 7:51 pm Post subject:

I don't think he loves you. Sorry.

eld13
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 7:53 pm Post subject:

forget about him your young and you'll fall in love again

Guitar G
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 7:53 pm Post subject:

guys are shy when it comes to gift givingthey worry about if you will like it or nottake it easy on him

grami
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 7:55 pm Post subject:

I'm sorry but, I don't really think he cares about you like he used to. He made it very apparent when he didn't stop you from leaving upset, and then not even calling. He's probably afraid to hurt your feelings, so he's avoiding you.

swimmergal825
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 7:57 pm Post subject:

o wow thrers a lot of problems with that. If he really loved you you would have met like on new years for that smooch <3 but just meeting now! wow nope he might just leave you when ur really in love with him and cant resist it. sorry if it sound mean i didnt mean 2 do that. if he didnt give you the best christmas gift then he might not care. (like when you get it) he should call right after you left and say are you all right and so so. i think theres some problems and you should talk it out with him or just leave the relationship.

rumcakesz.
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 7:58 pm Post subject:

wow can I relate! He's stubborn. With my boyfriend its been 14 months and he told me that I told him I didnt care when I was mad... I was mad =\ what does he expect. anways I advise you to talk to him , but give it until he calls DONT CALL HIM . then he`ll expect you to always call when you two get into a fight. When he does text or call , tell him whats on your mind. He prolly loves you , just something bothering him , FIND OUT ( : - - - best of luck . RUMCAKE`SZ.

LC
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 8:00 pm Post subject:

A relationship consists of each other understanding one another. This doesn't even seem like a relationship. You havent seen him since before Christmas? Are there reasons for that? Like family problems, school, work? That doesn't seem normal. If you are truly in a relationship you would see each other more often. You'd also be able to tell him that it bothered you the way he was acting. If you can't tell him that... maybe you need to move on because it seems as if he has. Be strong. Don't put up with that sorta stuff. If he doesn't give you respect then you should find someone who will give you that. Good luck!

mzappleez
Yahoo User

Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 8:09 pm Post subject:

I'm sorry sweetie. As the old saying goes "actions speak louder than words". He's stringing you along when he says that he loves you. When I was 19, I learned this lesson. I hope you do too. It's time to find a guy who will appreciate you.

SJourneyS
Yahoo User

Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 3:03 pm Post subject:

Stop wasting your energy. He's probably dating someone else, or doesn't really want a relationship. Save your love and attention for a guy that wants and deserves it. Sounds hard, but believe me, as soon as you meet someone else, you will forget about him. I don't know how old you are, but if you are under 21, I say, don't get too caught up in the idea of having a serious relationship.

Deja Vu!
Yahoo User

Posted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 7:44 pm Post subject:

...wasn't it just a date? Best, to move on and forget him, Itssounds like a mind control situation, again, move on and losethis guy!

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