I walk on eggshells with all my in-laws and it drives me nutts!!?

renkengrl · Yahoo User

Before I begin I love them all very much!! Especially my nieces.. My mother and law has made it hell for all of us. She has made sure that everyone dislikes me.My sister and Brother and law live just litteraly four houses down the street. My sister and law did not even come over for christmas.I have not even spoken to my niece sence christmas, she is 25 and I love her dearly.My husband dose not seem to care. I ask him have you called your family lately? His answer yes, but its been weeks and he left messages and they never called him back. I feel like I am always the one tring to see if thier mad, what thier mad about and tring to apologise for my mishaps. I know and admit to being a person whom does not do well with christmas gifts, because we are very tight on money, I admit to being one that I do forget about thank you notes, I never was raised to send them.. I try and try and I know we are not always the perfect family members, but I try and I try hard.I feel like I am in the hard place and no one helps me at all. I want to give up. What should I do?Not always the wrong one..My mother in law decieded she hated me because, "She cant afford the Toys my parents can" and "My mother worked and she stayed home". She has an issue with my mom, she feels she always has to outdoo my mom. My mom ignores her and just tries to be nice. Even when she makes nasty comment to her. Then when my brother and sister in law moved down the street after retiering from the army they used to love to hang out with my parents and I. Then she started to do this thing where she made them feel like crap for doing so. Then they get decieded to just stay out of it. And then on top of it nthey are note writers and thank you notes writers and the sorts and decides that because I call instead of writing seems to upset them. Then yes the do spend a good amount of money on my little boys but my husband and I are a new family, we still live paycheck to paycheck and its hard to do they same as they do. They are much older and more established. I am not perfect but I admit it.