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Author Message Angel Yahoo User Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 8:15 am    Post subject: i need help with this big baby? so here's the deal, my bf and i were on a break for like a week the beginning of january. during this time my mom and i went to my ex's house to get my stuff and at this time he gave me a christmas gift, nothing big just a box of chocolates and a dvd. well, i forgot about it and never told my bf and besides we weren't together at that time. last night my bf came over and saw the chocolates & asked where they came from & i told him. he got upset & asked me why i didn't tell him about it before. i told him i forgot about it & it was while we weren't together. now he is being all pouty & saying that i need to work on gaining his trust & these types of things are making him build up a wall. i don't think i did anything wrong and i don't want to fight over this silly issue, but he is being such a big baby and won't drop it. what can i do for him to just get over it!?!?!?wow jack, you couldn't be more off. to me, honesty is important in a relationship. the truth always comes out, like what if the next time we were over my parents house my bf told them that the chocolates they gave me were really good or something & then they would be like what chocolates? and i'd be caught in a lie. i'm a really bad liar anyways. Back to top ??? Yahoo User Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 8:19 am    Post subject: sorry but there is nothing you can do to make him grow up but tell him to stop being a pussy over the issue its just a box of chocolates for goodness sake. gosh Back to top Clara Theron Yahoo User Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 8:20 am    Post subject: Now here's that deal.....Show him your under the skirt area, and ask him if he wants any of it.He will want some, for sure...Then tell him you are not going to give him any until he stops his fretting about past things....He will get the message quite soon. Back to top Lookin-2-Talk Yahoo User Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 8:21 am    Post subject: Just get rid of him. You didn't do anything wrong so therefore you do not have to "work on regaining his trust"...F that and stop that controlling behavior now. Tell him to hit the road and call you again when he grows up. You will feel a lot better when he is gone instead of always having to walk on egg shells wondering if he is going to get mad at you. Back to top Kirsty W Yahoo User Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 8:22 am    Post subject: No u have not done anything wrong, if he cant deal with it thats his problem there is nothing wrong with it at all, hes just jealous and maybe he thinks ur ex might try to be getting you back anyway for all he knows you and your ex could be friends but if he doesnt get over it soon i think he isnt good enough for you. Back to top Ali Yahoo User Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 8:24 am    Post subject: He's not being a baby, he's being a manipulator, trying to make you feel guilty for something just because he couldn't control it. Call him out on that, tell him straight up that you aren't going to feel bad, so he can either choose to man up or hit the road. He'll make his choice. Back to top jls Yahoo User Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 8:24 am    Post subject: leave him - you didn't do anything to loose his trust - take your time finding someone who will be respectful of you -- this is controlling behavior and you need to run the other way. Back to top jackhighbluff Yahoo User Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 8:29 am    Post subject: Why wouldn't you just tell him the chocolates were from your parents that were given to you for Christmas or something? You just wanted to see how he would react and test his insecurity and he failed and now you're the one who is actually thinking about it too much and being a baby because he didn't pass and he's not the secure guy you wanted him to be. Back to top cool.one476 Yahoo User Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 10:13 am    Post subject: well you should not apologise or do anything of such sort but just give him some chocolates and say that now we will eat it together and we will try to forget old things and be friends again. Back to top

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