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Susie
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 Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:16 pm Post subject: If a man doesnt buy you a gift for valentine's day? |
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| I have been seeing this guy for awhile and we've shared a mostly friends with benefits relationship. If he doesnt buy me a valentine's gift what should I assume? I know a lot of men arent thrilled with being expected to buy something for valentine's day but I think if they really like you they will. He has told me before he thinks if men have to buy a valentines gift then there should be a special day for men to get something from their wife or girlfriend. He always buys his daughter a bouquet or chocolates for valentine's. Advice on this one please? By the way he is 40 years old and divorced.Oh I forgot he says he doesnt like to get gifts also.And it's a little more than friends with benefits, it is a relationship. |
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Snicklefritz
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:20 pm Post subject: |
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| Get him a valentines gift and let it play out from there. |
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amy
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:22 pm Post subject: |
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| Well I don't think there is a reason to get a FRIENDs with benefits a present. Cuz it's not a 'real' relationship. It it? |
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miss kitty
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:24 pm Post subject: |
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| i think he has a valid point: what are you getting him for V-Day?and i mean something that he wouldn`t get any other time? (sex isn`t really a gift when you can have it any time...)what special thing are you going to do or buy for him?Valentine`s isn`t just for the ladies, ya know......... |
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marlenekay4
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| Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 5:24 pm Post subject: |
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| A gift should never be expected. A woman should never require a gift for any holiday. If the man gets her one then great. People have to many expectations about getting gifts, and most people only give out of obligation. It is much better to not have the expectation and to let him give out of his wanting to not required to. And there is nothing wrong with women getting their man a gift for valentines day. I think too many women expect a gift but don't give. I was married for 16 years and never received a gift for any holiday. I have been with my new husband for almost 2 years and have never received a gift on a holiday but I continue to give with love. He shows me in so many other ways how much he loves me. Your boyfriend probably gave so much to his ex and didn't get in return. OR maybe she didn't appreciate what he did for her, even on an everyday basis. |
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