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hope
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 Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 10:46 am Post subject: does my bf appreciate me?he is saying that valentinesday means nothing its just not a big deal? |
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| last valentine my fiance took me out for dinner but we didnt find a nice place coz they were all booked up and when i asked him why didnt u make reservations he said he did but it was all booked up and we spend the day wandering in the streets in his car looking for a place to go but we were unlucky .i was mad at first coz it was our first valentine togetherbut i made an excuse for him coz his father was sick on the mean times and he just bought me flowers while i bought him a large stuffed animal with the word i love u all over itand when i mentioned that to him after a long time he said that buying flowers and taking me to dinner was enough and that his friends sometimes take thier gf out and no gifts and its ok and he blamed me that i didnt care that his father was sick during that week . i dont know what to expect from him.does he appreciate me??? |
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Katie S
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| Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 10:49 am Post subject: |
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| surprisingly, for many men, Valentine's doesn't mean much. especially when they know that they already got you. it is only when a man is still trying to get a woman that they use the day as a special occassion to spoil/surprise woman. |
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deborah g
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| Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 10:50 am Post subject: |
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| Flowers and dinner are plenty! Valentines Day is really not a big deal, it's just a reason to do something sweet for the person you love. Dinner and flowers are very sweet. |
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olderwiser100
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| Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 10:51 am Post subject: |
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| apparently not. although retail driven, valentine's day is special. very poor excuse not making reservations, not considering it a big day. if it is a big day to you, it should be to him as well. shame on him. |
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reneej
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| Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 10:53 am Post subject: |
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| Its simply a Hallmark holiday and I feel like I am special enough to him every other day of the year, I don't mind not celebrating it. |
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do u have the key to my h
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| Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 10:56 am Post subject: |
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| guys never like to be wrong. he probably 4got about v-day and made an excuse. flowers are a really romantic gesture, and maybe that was what he was going for. he feels like u don't need a holiday to celebrate your love for eachother. it will be okay. |
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cjvanessen
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| Posted: Fri Feb 08, 2008 11:01 am Post subject: |
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| I just wanted to say that though Valentines Day is a special day for couples, it has to be for both parties...maybe you could sit down with him and discuss how both of you feel about the day and figure out a solution that would make you both happy next time it comes around. Maybe he just wasn't up to celebrating because of his dad or he does think dinner and flowers are enough. But if you communicate with him to find out from him what is going on then you will be better equipped to handle the situation. Also, maybe he needs to hear from you that V-Day is important to you and you want to do something really special whatever that might be. Letting him know this might help him realize that he needs to make more of an effort. |
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