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damny
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Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 5:32 am Post subject: My bf gave me a gift which is he got from his old ex-gf..plz give me some advice?

I broke up wit my bf last year but he kept calling and e-mailing me for over 1year he tryna get my trust back n tryna work out cause he said he realized how much i meant to him and he really needs me in his life. he also wanna get marry wit me.but he was lying and cheating so many times so i had no trust for him but seems like he try so hard so he came to see me and we talked.he is in military and he bout to move to other counrty so he said he wanna pay for the ticket for me visiting him and he said wanna live wit me in that country and marry wit me, he wanna tryna work out and get my trust back. since then he treated me like princess and i started to think positive way bout it. he gave me a flowers n teddy bear and took me out and we had so much fun but i just found out that day he gave me a teddy was which is he got from his old ex-gf. he gave me a gift which is he got from others. whats this mean? he doesnt love me? even he wanna marry me? i dont know wat to do. is he playing game?

Millie
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 5:39 am Post subject:

Give him , with his teddy bear, back to his girlfriend!

Memouri
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 5:39 am Post subject:

why would he do that? idk, maybe he still loves his exgf

PEGGY S
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 5:42 am Post subject:

It means that your bf is an idiot!!! He is disrespecting you, and you are letting him do it. Get out of there and have some self respect. He does not love you or he would never give you something like that!

landayi
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 5:43 am Post subject:

If he says he loves you and you belive him let it be. But these gifts? I'd throw them back in his face!

tamikasemail
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 5:44 am Post subject:

He isn't trying hard enough, giving you stuff that has a connection to a past lover. That is rude. There are a lot of men out there that will not cheat on you. He broke your trust once and you took him back. Now he knows he can do it again and you will forgive him. If you move somewhere far away with him, you won't be able to leave so easily either. You should move on to a man who can love you and be trusted. You deserve better, my sister!

Doo
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 5:48 am Post subject:

Think about it you seem more concerned on all the goodies he gives you and yet the lying and cheating was endless then you get a gift from an ex which means you have no value in love in his eyes the looser needs to be lost or trained stop giving him candy on a plate all the time. When one thinks positive it's about themselves so build on that cause you did nothing bet you this guy don't remember last weeks meaningful talk. To me this guy is a hunter he likes and thrives on the chase. Don't marry to live to regret.

Chiksita
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 5:48 am Post subject:

Tell him that you aren't going to be coming in 2nd place to any other woman and that includes his Mother. As for the teddy bear, he's just being a man. They don't think anything of trying to pawn something like that onto you, he was just being cheap by not buying you something himself. Throw the danged old bear away. If he makes a fuss about it, throw him away too.

chloelaws
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 6:03 am Post subject:

U don't take something from a bf that his ex gf gave him, that's just wrong and he should know that. Give it back to him and tell him that he should throw it away, he's holding onto something from the past that shouldn't be there.

lucylushkins
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 6:06 am Post subject:

i know this guy, it was me.

samshitt
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 6:13 am Post subject:

this is the problem!!!!YOU WOMEN KILL ME!!!!!he cheated lied.and those are only the ones u know about!!!NOW YOU ARE ASKING US ABOUT MARRYING HIM!!!!!YEA GO AHEAD AND BE HE WIFE.HAVE FUN WITH A HUSBAND WHO LIES!!!

Linda C
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 6:14 am Post subject:

This guy sounds like a cheapskate. Remember that leopards don't change their spots, so there's no guarantee that he will be any different than he was before. He gets points for being persistent, but that doesn't mean much. If you go to another country, think about what you'd do if you could no longer stay in that relationship.... something to think about, right? As for the gift, thank him kindly and just put it in a drawer. Then maybe you can donate it to charity when he isn't looking. (Don't confront him about it because it's only a small thing. Save your confrontations for something big and ugly.) As long as you know and remember, you'll be okay. Really, he sounds like a fast talker that is thinking only of himself. You decide how you want to live and who you want to be with. Remember that a woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.

midnightrambler
Yahoo User

Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 7:39 am Post subject:

Probally had nothing esle to give you at the time or is just plain cheap. Read the question asked earlier about long distance relationships and you will read 99 per cent of them do not work. Therefore tell him you'll wait untill he comes back.

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