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damny
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 Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 5:30 am Post subject: My bf gave me a gift which is he got from his ex-gf before??? |
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| I broke up wit my bf last year but he kept calling and e-mailing me for over 1year he tryna get my trust back n tryna work out cause he said he realized how much i meant to him and he really needs me in his life. he also wanna get marry wit me.but he was lying and cheating so many times so i had no trust for him but seems like he try so hard so he came to see me and we talked.he is in military and he bout to move to other counrty so he said he wanna pay for the ticket for me visiting him and he said wanna live wit me in that country and marry wit me, he wanna tryna work out and get my trust back. since then he treated me like princess and i started to think positive way bout it. he gave me a flowers n teddy bear and took me out and we had so much fun but i just found out that day he gave me a teddy was which is he got from his old ex-gf. he gave me a gift which is he got from others. whats this mean? he doesnt love me? even he wanna marry me? i dont know wat to do. is he playing game? |
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brilliantyetconfused
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| Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 5:35 am Post subject: |
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| Dump him. Why you keep "trynna" go back with him? Face it, you are sweating him as much as he's playing you.NO relationship is built on lack of trust. How'd you find out he's a re-gifter (to quote Seinfeld). Talk about a tacky way to show his love for you by giving you a gift an ex gave him.Also a jinx. I say get rid of it and change your number. |
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Racer
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| Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 5:36 am Post subject: |
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| He couldn't even go out and buy you a new teddy bear to go along with the flowers... he gives you one his old girlfriend gave to him??? Wow... that's speaks volume. You were not important enough to him to make the effort to go buy a new bear.... instead, he gives you an old used one. Pathetic is my answer to that. Sorry.... anyone who's cheated and lied to me in the past is going to stay that way to me... in the past. |
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theindianbkworm
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| Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 5:39 am Post subject: |
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| hey look he might not be so well off.. that teddy bear might've been something he really liked, but gave it to you since he loved you so. however, i dotn know your bf so i cant say for sure if he's playing games or whether it's for real. thats what you really need to find out. try and see if he's trustworthy.. as you say, he's lied and cheated many times. think of something to test his love for you..tell him something or get something of great importance done him. see how he goes about it. you should be able to trust and like this person enough to spend the rest of your life with him if you want to marry him!! |
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