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QIslandgirl
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 Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 11:08 pm Post subject: What do I do? |
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| I dated this guy for almost 5 years. We had a child together and we broke up recently. He just got up and told me not to call him anymore. He told me he is not the child's father he is just a sperm donor and he is not obligated to help me raise her, he was just doing it as a favor. He is 100% the father and that was never a question. He stopped coming to see his child and about 2 months later I find out he gave me 2 parting gifts. I'm pregnant again and he gave me a STD. I haven't spoken to him since the day he told me not to call him again. I have filed for child support and of course the first child is 99.99%. I don't know what to do? I am very angry with him, 1st for the STD and 2nd the way he treated me and the way he treats his child. He did not give her a gift for her birthday or christmas, he just got up and that was that. The second baby is going to be a boy, the last to carry on the family name, but I am having second thoughts about giving him his father's last name. |
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cubanchica198716
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| Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 11:12 pm Post subject: |
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| dont give him his last name...he doesnt deserve it!..give it yours! |
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Noah's Mommy
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| Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 11:14 pm Post subject: |
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| For someone to do that, he isn't a man or a father. Don't even give him the time of day. You hold your head up and you be an awesome parent to both of your children. Personally, I would want both my children to have the same last name and for them to not be different from eachother. Hang in there and rely on God and he will bless you with an awesome man that is going to take good care of you and love you and those children unconditionally!Good Luck and I will say a special prayer for you tonight! |
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Elicia
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| Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 11:17 pm Post subject: |
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| If you are not with him, there is no reason for you to give the child his last name. And if you really want, you can get your other childs last name legally changed to yours as well.You can get a court order to make him pay child support. If you are 100% sure that the child is his, and he refuses, you will probably have to get a paternity test. If he is the father, then he must pay support, and there are consequences for him if he doesn't pay (here, they can deduct money straight out of your account, among other things, if it gets really bad they can revoke your license).Get your STD treated right away because it could harm the effect of your unborn child. Since you have been with him for 5 years, is the STD recent? If so, you can be sure he has been unfaithful and that's probably why he's left you.Be thankful he has left. You deserve someone better. Good luck. You are in my prayers. |
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LJ
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| Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 11:34 pm Post subject: |
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| I agree, let your little boy take your name. You will be the one really parenting him! And follow through with the child support. That louse should have to support his kids! |
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