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♥╚►Curt's Babyâ—„â•
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 Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 7:25 pm Post subject: 30 weeks pregnant and family problems !!? |
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| Okay i know i am young and i made a mistake and got pregnant well i am 30 weeks and 5 days pregnant well me and my mom and grandma has never really gotten along and they are always calling my boyfriend (the father) sorry and all kinds of names and i cant take it anymore they think they are gods gift to the world or something i am 16 years old and no my boyfriend does not have a job but he has been trying really really hard I cant take them anymore they are always calling him and his mom idiots and stuff like that saying they aint scared of them and stuff what should i do it is stressing me out really bad and i cant take it anymore !!!! please some one help me !My boyfriend and his family are really supportive but i am so scared my mom and grandma might call child srevices on me because they are known to do something like this and make up a bunch of lies to get my daughter taken from me and they said if i left i could not take any of the baby stuff they bought witch i dont see what they would want with it it is horrible !even when he did hae a job they did not back off it is kinda like they are jealous or somethingShe has put him down even before we got pregnant ! |
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Meg H
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 7:28 pm Post subject: |
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| Can you stay with your bf and his family? How supportive are they? |
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punkroxxx19
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 7:31 pm Post subject: |
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| i think the most important thing right now is to focus on the health and well-being of your baby. if your mom and grandma stresses you out, is there a way to avoid them for, say 10 more weeks??! as far as your boyfriend, its great he is trying to help you and that he is supportive - thats important. it would be great if he got a job though, and maybe your mom and grandma would back off a little.... good luck, hon. |
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Stephanie S
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 7:37 pm Post subject: |
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| Ok, Im 12 so don't think it's wierd getting advice from a 12 year old, First you should look into your self a know that you made a mistake..Making a mistake is natural because the world isn't perfect but anyway you have life inside of you meaning the baby and now it is time to make mature decicions ok and no more fooling around,Now your mom will always be your mom she's probably feeling upset to the fact that her little girl is pregnant and taking all the streess out on your boyfriend. When your mom says those things again just say mom can i talk to you ,then that is when you tell her how you feel about her negative comments on your boyfriend. Im pretty sure from there she'll understand. And, remember being pregnant at 16 of age doesn't make you less of a person. Even though I don't know you I believe in you and from now on you should try making smart decicions i'm pretty sure your a smart girl................THINK WISE!!! |
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meggiemeg92
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 7:37 pm Post subject: |
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| you love him, he loves you.. to me, that's all that matters. Parents always think they're "helping" when they point out things they don't like about your boyfriend[[or girlfriend]] but they don't realize that when they try to "help" it just makes it worse and you just don't want to hear it.try to get away for a few cause stress+pregnancy isn't always that good .. |
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kryptonnite2000
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 7:38 pm Post subject: |
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| Well, honey your mom and grandmother are disappointed in you and your bf because your prengant. I know how that is it will come to an end when the baby is born believe me. They will be to crazy about the baby to even worry about the stuff they are talking about now. Only thing is then your going to have another problem. Your mother and grandmother aren't gonna want your baby to be with it's father are other grandparents. Good Luck and GOD BLESS!!!!! |
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unique4some
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 7:38 pm Post subject: |
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| They both sound BI-Polar. and they should really know better being adults, to not have you so upset during this time.If they keep on with their Holier than thou pretenses, reming them if they are so good and gods gift, they's of trained you about birthcontrol. That might shut them up!You can get emancipate at age 16. why not try that? IF your a good mom and you have a clean safe place for the baby, there is no reason to worry about your mom and gma making lies and calls about your baby's care. |
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riss
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 7:39 pm Post subject: |
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| i think that it was bad what you did i think that you should tell God that your dorry and just leep praying to Him. |
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smrdesir
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 7:46 pm Post subject: |
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| The family seems stressed out about financial issues along with other things that's going on. They are probably thinking that you are not ready to have a baby yet. But,once the baby is born, everyone will be happy and forget about all the mess that happened. Good luck. |
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Josette C
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| Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 11:17 pm Post subject: |
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| GO TO UR FATHER AN HAVE UR FATHER DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT THAT IS IF HE IS NOT WITH UR MOTHER... |
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