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NC GUY
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 Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 7:53 am Post subject: If you had been hurt by past boyfriends...?????women 28 and up? |
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| i have dated this girl for about a month, i really like her but she had some bad relationships with ex boyfriends.. she said she is not ready to trust her feelings and still wants to date, she just started a new job and i barely see n her over the past few weekends.. i made plans 2 times and both times she got called into work.. i dont know if shes being distant or not i cant tell i suprised her with personalized teddybear at her work for her b day and shes working all week now and i wont see her on v day.. i have a gift im gonna leave by her door so she gets it b4 she goes to work.. my question is if u had bad past relationships and a guy was treating u like this after a month what would u do? or how long would u wait? would u give him a chance? she is 31 and im 27 please advise... women 28 and up plz |
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gails_gails
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| Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 7:59 am Post subject: |
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| Sounds like you need to back off and give her some room to breathe. If she has been hurt by past relationships, only time will help her to heal. Just keep being her friend, but don't smother her in the process. |
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wildflower
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| Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 8:04 am Post subject: |
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| She has bills to pay, rent, food, etc. I think she is so caught up in trying to fit in on the new job, then getting some rest for the next shift, etc., getting the laundry done, that her personal life is suffering right now. Did she get behind on living expenses while she was between jobs? How does she get to work? The next time you are with her, ask a few probing questions to try and find out if you can be of assistance in any way to help her out and make it easier for her to adjust to the new job. |
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Tahliyah
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| Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 8:08 am Post subject: |
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| To honestly say,my sis is going through something similar.She has this wonderful new bf who would do anything for her but because of her past relationships,she has been hurt really bad so she finds it kinda difficult to adjust.I mean that all her life she has been heart broken where she had to mend herself over and over again until she just felt that it was normal and she now honestly cannot and will no allow herslf to depend on a man for anything.Yes she loves him,but will always have her gaurd up.She basically feels that if all other guys can do that to her...whats gona stop him from doing the same thing down the line.She likes her time alone and wants him to give her some space.She actually wants to miss him but he dont give her the chance to miss him. |
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