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I D
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 Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 2:39 pm Post subject: No gift for valentine's day? |
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I gave my boyfrienda leather band for around his wrist with an inscription on the inside. I love buying stuff for him, so valentine's day is good fun for me! This is our first valentine together (10 months) and he just totally ignored it  . I didn't want him to buy me a gift, but just a "happy valentine's day" would've done, or even an e-card or something... I know he's not very fond of the commercial aspect of valentine's day, but I think he should respect my feelings about the day of lovers... He's been silent all week, and I really don't know what to think of it anymore... He keeps on saying he loves me, but I'm so scared he's just trying to convince himself... Please, can anyone help me? |
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jpturboprop
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| Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 2:45 pm Post subject: |
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| could be a message, and not a pleasant one, at that. Ask him flat out... |
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Jennifer A
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| Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 2:54 pm Post subject: |
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| Maybe he's just extremely self-centered. Extremely self-centered. |
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moonba1
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| Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 3:25 pm Post subject: |
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| i think u two should talk about how u feel for him, how he feel for u. tell him that u think he should respect your feelings. just let it all out whether y'all argue it doesn't matter. u both need to let each other know how y'all really feel about any situation. Good Luck! |
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Light Knight
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| Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 3:33 pm Post subject: |
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| There is a slim chance that he is a tad bit ashamed that he did not get something special for you for Valentines Day. Ignoring your gift may just be denial on his part of his inadequacy in relationships. As moonba1 states the two of you need to sit down and talk. We each have certain things that are said and done that make us feel loved and how we express love in return. I hold out hope for you that it is merely a lack of communication that with a little understanding and training may be averted. |
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nana
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| Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 3:51 pm Post subject: |
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| awww...really you sound like a very sweet girl....You need to speak to him and be ready for what ever he got to say ...I mean tell him how you feel even if you think you shouldn't.We girls sometimes blinds ourselves because we get attached easy..But honey you should have gotten at least and happy valentine rose or a chocolate ...i know what you mean when you say you dint want a gift or anything expensive but you do deserve someone to at least to show so emotions on such a spacial day ....Valentines day happens only once a yr and you have wasted one...sorry to say but he needs to get tossed out the door.He is taking advantage of your good feelings and you need to show him that you are worth more way more on valentines day and every other friken day ....I wish you the best luck in the world and remember there are many other guys dying out the to have a valentine girl like you and are willing to give you a great one too. |
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jigfam
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| Posted: Sun Feb 17, 2008 4:03 pm Post subject: |
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| I agree that the situation doesn't sound good. You say you love buying stuff for him - maybe you are buying him too much and "smothering" him with love if you know what I mean - it's easy to do when you're young and in love. You really need to talk to him and maybe ease back on the intensity of your relationship as it sounds as if he is having problems dealing with it. |
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