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iwannaknowdatruth
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 Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 10:52 pm Post subject: My friend didn't get me a Valentine's Day Gift... How would you handle this? |
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| I got my friend a Valentine's Day gift and he knew that he was getting it. Last month we talked about getting each other gifts and I thought we agreed to do so. He knew he was getting a gift ahead of time. I've known this guy since age 3 and my feelings are hurt that he didn't get me a gift even bother to call me. FYI we also have feelings for each other a lil more than friendship. How do you think I should handle this situation?He makes like 40,000 a year and he lives with his parents... trust me there is no financial reason. And he didn't even call me today.I said in the post that I've known him since i was 3. so 18 years. and yes we did agree on getting each other gifts. the only reason i used the word "thought" is cuz he didn't get me anything. |
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cashew
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 10:56 pm Post subject: |
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| their might be a finacial reason behind it. ask him if he wants to do something and maybe you can find out if hes broke |
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Asil
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 10:58 pm Post subject: |
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| if you're not a couple then it shouldn't effect you. just get over it |
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midnightchef
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 11:02 pm Post subject: |
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| who cares valintines day is retarted if you really love some one so much everyday should be valintines day not because your expected to |
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marimel c
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 11:03 pm Post subject: |
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| scold him for not keeping his word about ggving you a gift and that it bothered you cuz you got him a gift and he didn't. or maybe he's giving you a late gift and its something special. either way tell him how you feel. |
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Andrea W
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 11:18 pm Post subject: |
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| Ohhhh,My God, I would feel so bad you have been friends that long and even agread on this together and he still didn't get you anything .Ya, my fellings would be most defenitly hurt,Girl you have every write to fll the way you do.And dont let anyone tell you any different.I would let him know how you fell,if you geys are more then friends he should know and he should care.I hope everything go's well for you. L et me know how it turns out.You get me on my URL,At myspace.com/andreawilson...or look up my yahoo messegeror my 360page.Good luck girl. |
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dragonfaeblue12
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| Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 11:20 pm Post subject: |
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| Hold on a second. "Last month we talked about getting each other gifts and I thought we agreed to do so?" Um, did you actually agree to that? You mention you have feelings for each other. Maybe he doesn't want to get you something you won't like or something that suggests he's ready to get into a relationship. What was the extent of your conversation? How well do you know this guy? Have you talked about getting together or is it just guesswork on your part?It's impossible to solve a word problem that has info missing. Find your variables and solve them. Then you'll find your answer.dfb |
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д†henд
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| Posted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 2:28 am Post subject: |
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| Well you know him better than any of us. Is this a usual behavior from him to act so forgetful or so insensitive? And what was his reaction to your gift? Didn't he say he was sorry that he forgot? Maybe he didn't think you would go thru with it, or his feelings have changed for you. |
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