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Carrie D
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 Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 12:50 pm Post subject: Should I be suspicious of my boyfriend because he gave me a cheap gift for valentines day? |
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| Me and my boyfriend have been dating for eight monthes. theres an eight year age difference between us. I am 23 and he is 31. He is a sweet guy, but my family has suspicions about him because he does not have alot of money. They don't belive that he is working hard in shool or at work. They are so scared for me. Now he says in due time he is going to give me a promise ring but money is low right now. I am the only child and i believe things should be done in a certain way. Most of the things that I have were given to me. I come from a good family and things should be done in a nicley manner. for valentines day he brought me a card that he signed up side down and some cheap bath stuff that came in a dirty bag. when I saw the gift i was offended because i am used to getting gifts according to my liking. Now heres the twist my mom went to the doctor the other day and she was talking to this lady that said my man wasn't honest. should i take head to that? |
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Creolegirl
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| Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 12:56 pm Post subject: |
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| sounds like you are a SPOILED child!! you expect him to cater to your past upbringing!! maybe he is doing the best he can!! |
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foofan4life
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| Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 12:57 pm Post subject: |
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| I think you should find out the truth! |
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James Watkin
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| Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 12:57 pm Post subject: |
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| At 31 he should have a good job and some money in the bank. You need to think about why he is immature and irresponsible. He is not going to suddenly change. You will end up marrying what you are dating. |
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jef713
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| Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 12:58 pm Post subject: |
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| like suspicious that he is cheating on you? i don't think so i wouldn't assume that without some bigger signs and sometimes guys have a harder time picking out gifts |
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baby girl
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| Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 12:59 pm Post subject: |
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| He sounds like he isn't being honest somehow....why couldn't he even sign the card right side up ? and get a clean bag for your present? sure he may not have money but that's no excuse for giving your girlfriend cheap bath stuff in a dirty bag. byt the way if he's 31 he should be more responsible and be able to afford a gift for Valentine's day... the qestion is what did you get him?the main thing is you need to see how he starts acting. if he's cheating on you then he will start ignoring you or getting mad at you easily and alwyas be "busy" |
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Lady.Satan
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| Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 12:59 pm Post subject: |
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| waaaaaaah you dint get what you wanted for valentines daywaaaaaaaaah he doesnt have enuff moneywaaaaaaaaaah your mommy "heard a rumor"shut up and get over it |
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AngelEyes
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| Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 1:00 pm Post subject: |
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| I think you should not like someone for wealth or what they can offer you. Material things don't matter in a relationship. I don't think you like/love this guy at all. You're only after money and material things. You should try and change that, before you consider a proper relationship. You are saying that his gift wasn't considerate, however it's the taught which should count, not the gift. Hope you don't think I'm being too rude, I'm just being honest.Best of luck. |
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sammy3256
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| Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 1:01 pm Post subject: |
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| So he signed the card upside down so he wasnt paying atttention, it meant it was last minute - who knows where he got the dirty gift.Yeah I would be upset. I also believe that things should be done the right way and nicely. So if things dont match then I think you need to tell him until you get the promise ring that you are going to date. I think you need to tell him what you and your family expects. And either he can do it or you find someone who can.I think you need to sit down with your mom and find out more about what she heard. Regardless, you need to make sure that you are not settling for less. |
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Me_love_Me love_Him_xoxo
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| Posted: Sat Feb 23, 2008 1:02 pm Post subject: |
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| I'm sorry but you are sounding like a spoiled f****** brat. You are crying because he doesn't have money? You believe a rumor? OMG grow up. |
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