What is up with my confusing friend???

Rex · Yahoo User

I had a female friend a few years ago, and we became VERY close to each other--spent almost all of our time together. I later fell in love with her and asked her to be my gf, but she declined saying she didn't want it to ruin our friendship.I left and spent a year in college downstate, and she suddenly grew apart from me when she got a bf. She wouldn't email me anymore, and whenever I called her, she was very cold and rude to me--once telling the person who answered to "tell him I'm not here." I sent her a Christmas gift, but she never thanked me. After 8 months, I completely gave up trying to salvage the friendship and left her alone.When I returned back to my hometown, I got an upset email from her demanding to know why I'd been back but not let her know...which shocked me.Now she comes around (mind you, the bf is gone now) but she keeps asking why I'm so different and why I'm not so into her anymore. What does she expect after she treated me like that? What is up?