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Maddie Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:05 pm Post subject: What do you think of this Wedding Timeline? |
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| Pre-ceremony6:30 – 7:00Guest Seated (Run with it; nice soft music)Ceremony7:00 Wedding Ceremony beginsMom’s escorted down (Grooms mom first, then my mother second) (Song __________________)When my mom arrives moms get up to walk up and light candleJoey (Minister) & Sean walk downNathan & Alison (Jr. Groomsman & Jr. Bridesmaid) Bryce & Deb (Groomsman & Bridesmaid)Steve & Heidi (Groomsman & Bridesmaid)Mike & Jamie (Best Man & Matron of Honor)My entrance with my dad (Song “Wedding March”)Joey - (Reading) 1 CORINTHIANS 13:4-8aLove is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude.Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right.Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.Love never ends.Joey Speak Freely (Vows) I, (name), take you, (name), to be my lawfully wedded (husband/wife), my constant friend, my faithful partner and my love from this day forward. In the presence of God, our family and friends, I offer you my solemn vow to be your faithful partner in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow. I promise to love you unconditionally, to support you in your goals, to honor and respect you, to laugh with you and cry with you, and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live.Ring Exchange:I give you this ring as a sign of my vow, and with all that I am, and all that I have; I honor you in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.Unity Candle (Song – “When you love someone” Byan Adams) Fade out Joey (Reading) The Blessing of the Hands Amanda, please face Sean, and hold his hands, palms up, so you may see the gift that they are to you. These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and vibrant with love, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as he promises to love you all the days of his life. These are the hands that will work along side yours, as together you build your future, as you laugh and cry, as you share your innermost secrets and dreams. These are the hands you will place with expectant joy against your stomach, until he too, feels his child stir within you. These are the hands that look so large and strong, yet will be so gentle as he holds your baby for the first time. These are the hands that will work long hours for you and your new family These are that hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through the years, for a lifetime of happiness. These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes: tears of sorrow and tears of joy These are the hands that will comfort you in illness, and hold you when fear or grief wrack your mind. These are the hands that will tenderly lift your chin and brush your cheek as they raise your face to look into his eyes: eyes that are filled completely with his overwhelming love and desire for you. Sean, please hold Amanda’s hands, palms up, where you may see the gift that they are to you. These are the hands of your best friend, smooth, young, and carefree, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as she pledges her love and commitment to you all the days of her life. These are the hands that will hold each child in tender love, soothing them through illness and hurt, supporting and encouraging them along the way, and knowing when it is time to let go These are the hands that will massage tension from your neck and back in the evenings after you’ve both had a long hard day. These are the hands that will hold you tight as you struggle through difficult times These are the hands that will comfort you when you are sick, or console you when you are grieving. They are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through the years, for a lifetime of happiness. These are the hands that will hold you in joy and excitement and hope, each time she tells you that you are to have another child, that together you have created a new life. These are the hands that will give you support as she encourages you to chase down your dreams. Together as a team, everything you wish for can be realized. Sean and Amanda, these are the hands that will enter the Sacrament of Matrimony. These four hands will be your armor and shield against the evils and temptations of the world. These are the hands that will reach out, first to each other, then united, will spread your love and your sacrament to all they touch. These are the hands that will ease your parents’ loneliness as you leave the nest, will first teach your own children the marvels of married life, and will be a sign to friends and strangers alike as to just how wonderful married life can be. Through these four hands, God will renew His Church. God, bless these hands that you see before you this day. May they always be held by one another. Give them the strength to hold on during the storms of stress and the dark of disillusionment. Keep them tender and gentle as they nurture each other in their wondrous love. Help these hands to continue building a relationship founded in your grace, rich in caring, and devoted in reaching for your perfection. May Sean and Amanda see their four hands as healer, protector, shelter, and guide. We ask this in your name, Amen.Joey – Present Mr. & Mrs. ask guest to mingle in main hall while DJ equipment is moved into the reception room, approximately 20 minutes.Exit (Song “Beautiful Day” U2)After CeremonySean and I are going to go up to the room where I am getting ready. We need the wedding party to keep the guest down in the main hall while the DJ moves his equipment up to the reception room. Wedding party wait to enter reception are so we can be introduced.Reception:8:00Everyone is in the room getting drinks / appetizersIntroduce Wedding Party (Song “Bittersweet Symphony” The Verve)Let everyone mingle for a bit and eat get drinks Sean and Amanda First Dance (Song “Lost in this moment”)Cut the cake (Song “How sweet it is to be loved by you)Toast by (Best Man) Mike & (Matron of Honor) JamieContinue Mingling Father / Daughter & Mother Son Dance (Song “My Wish”)Rest of the night run with the music11:30 Last Dance (Song “Wonderful Tonight” Eric Clapton)Just wanted to add that there are no grandparents nor ring bearer or flower girl.Im not really sure that my fiance and I want a recieving line.. What do you think?Yes, Im sure about the Verve. We are using it for the beat, not the lyrics. It was actually a popular song for wedding party announcements on a website I found. |
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667mom Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:11 pm Post subject: |
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| I did not read every word of your question, but right at the start I saw something wrong. As soon as the usher seats the moms, they are going to pop back up and light candle? not a good idea. Preacher should say something about families being united, just a short little thing and THEN the moms get up and light the candle. Good luck honey, I went back and read it all, everything else sounds great!!! |
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_NATURAL_ Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:11 pm Post subject: |
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| I feel like I was there and it happened already from reading all of that.LolI love the (Reading) 1 CORINTHIANS 13:4-8aIt seems like your wedding is going to be great! Congrats =) |
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amandasue28 Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:11 pm Post subject: |
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| Wow it's really planned out! I love it! The only thing I would suggest is that I've heard you're suppose to start the wedding at a time going up like 7:30. It's supposed to be good luck instead of the clock going down. Good luck! Sounds great! |
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tineyfiney Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:12 pm Post subject: |
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| How long between the end of the ceremony and the start of the reception? You say the guests need to wait in the hall while the DJ moves all his equipment? Have you talked to the DJ about this? I was under the impression it can take 30-60 minutes for them to set up. If possible give your guests a place to have appetizers and cocktails while the DJ is setting up, or have a receiving line so you can thank all the guests for coming so they have something to do. You don't want them mulling around in a hallway for an extended period of time. |
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navillus_100 Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:20 pm Post subject: |
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| Won't the DJ be set up prior to the ceremony if he is playing the music for the ceremony. Everything else looks great. I like the song choices. oh if you are still trying to figure out a song for the Mothers here is link to some music that might work for you with the other songs you have selected. Congrats.http://navillus99.blogspot.com/2008/03/wedding-ceremony-music.html |
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rdnkchic2003 Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:25 pm Post subject: |
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| I think it looks pretty good. You might consider grandparents and the flower girl and ring bearer. Also, will you be serving a meal? When will that take place? Sounds like you've got it together pretty well. Reminds me of myself, my friends referred to me as a wedding nazi. |
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jenniferbland2008 Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:28 pm Post subject: |
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| Sounds good. |
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Pink Denial Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:57 pm Post subject: |
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| You forgot the receiving line. |
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MissE Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 3:07 pm Post subject: |
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| Are you sure about using the Verve?'Cause it's a bittersweet symphony, this lifeTrying to make ends meetYou're a slave to money then you dieNot very uplifting or celebratory IMHO |
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A K Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 5:17 pm Post subject: |
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| sorry , i have no experience |
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mynxr Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 6:03 pm Post subject: |
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| I think the ceremony sounds beautiful. However, unless Joey is going to be able to speak freely for about 30 minutes, your guests are going to be waiting in the main hall for about 25 minutes. The ceremony as you have it will only last about 10 minutes depending on how long Joey talks. Will your guests be able to go up to the reception room before 8 pm? I know with our reception, they wouldn't let them in early so we timed it so they would start arriving at the reception site between 7:55 and 8:00 pm. Our reception went from 8 till midnight. Are you just planning on serving appetizers? If so you might want to have that on the reception card because your guests start arriving during the dinner hour. I would let them know so that they can eat before they come. Otherwise you may run out of appetizers and will definitely have hungry guests. |
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Lydia Yahoo User
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Posted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 7:46 am Post subject: |
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| You forgot the dinner, and professional photographs.LOVE the hands vows, I want to use them in the future if we have a vow renewal. |
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