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Author Message Michelle M Yahoo User Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:42 am    Post subject: GM gift idea? All of our grooms men are very sporty men. They all play softball together. All except one he is gay. We want to get them a personalized baseball bat. Would it be rude to get 4 of them the same gift and one something else? Or should I find something I can get for all 5 of them? Back to top McyD Yahoo User Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:45 am    Post subject: It would be ok to get them the bats and him something else. Just make sure what you get him is equally as nice and something that is unique to him.Good luck! Back to top Cher Yahoo User Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:45 am    Post subject: No, give the gay guy an appropriate gift for him!!Nothing wrong with that! Back to top siava101 Yahoo User Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:47 am    Post subject: I think it would be proper etiquette to get them all the same gift - something neutral that does not leave room for anyone to feel excluded or different. Back to top anastasia beaverhausen Yahoo User Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:47 am    Post subject: why on EARTH would you pick something different based on someone's bedmate preference??? Back to top Barbara B Yahoo User Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:48 am    Post subject: Gay men like to play softball just as much as straight men. And if he doesn't play softball, he might use a monogrammed bat to fend off homophobes.Seriously, how about something that isn't quite as sports-oriented: A money clip or maybe a gift card to a nice restaurant? Back to top Shay Yahoo User Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:53 am    Post subject: Definitely appropriate to get each individual something personalized to their individual tastes and interests. If you don't want him to be the only one not getting a bat since he doesn't play softball, then find other interests of the other groomsmen. Back to top Dee Yahoo User Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:53 am    Post subject: Why would you give the gay groomsman something different from the rest... just because he's gay??? He doesn't need to be singled out just because of his lifestyle. Treat him as you would the rest of the groomsmen. If your gay friend doesn't like the gift, let him figure out what to do with it. Back to top ArmyMom3 Yahoo User Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:54 am    Post subject: Either find something that they can all find useful that's the same or 5 different items that would be important to them. I wouldn't single out the one groomsman. We had the same scenario. We found something that they all could use that was the same. Back to top mommydear Yahoo User Posted: Fri Mar 28, 2008 10:59 am    Post subject: In my opinion, it is better to give them all same kind of gift..if the gayman does not play softball but he probably like to watch the game ....so you can still give them all something related to the game....enjoy. Back to top Stal Yahoo User Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 7:32 am    Post subject: If you are getting married, just wanted to let you know of a cool wedding gift for the couple or for the parents.A painting of your favorite wedding photo from www.creanta.comThey are the best at rendering likeness and their pricess are very affordable. I personally recommend them. Back to top sonya n Yahoo User Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 1:18 pm    Post subject: please visit http://www.jubbileeart.com/productDetail.php?p_id=598&p_name=Sport i thought it would make a nice & funny gift Back to top

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