He never buys me anything?

Megan · Yahoo User

I am not a materisitce person. However, I do think it shows a lot about a guy, when he can put his money where his emotions are. I feel like I am not appreciated, and not important to him, and not worth anything to him. For Thanksgiving, I got him a box full of snacks. For Christmas I got him a card and gifts. I got nothing. For Valentin's day I bought him six of the books he was interested in and two cards. Nothing. For my Birthday, nothing. I used to pay for every date. Before Valentine's day I got fed up and told him we were through, because I was tired of paying for every date, and because I did not feel like I was worth anything to him, because he never bought me anything. Anything that he would nearly look at, I would buy for him. Before we went out, he gave some woman fifteen bucks, just to help her out. Since we have been together, I have bought him an inexpensive laptop, and a book, just because.We had a talk back in February, and he begged me to give him another chance. I did. He failed. Now, I am not talking to him, because I am fed up with him. How can I believe he really loves me?He can be real sweet in other ways, and loving. . . but now I think he is just a B. S. ing smooth talking loser. Thoughts? Are all guys like this?I just wanted him to get me something, so that I would not feel like his money was more important to him, than I was. I am frusterated. What would you do, or thinkAnother thing, when he asked me to marry him, he never even got me an engagement ring or anything. That hurts.For clarification sake, he gave the woman fifteen bucks, because he was trying hard to get her to go out with him, not really to help her out, but to get her.