Ive lost my virginity, what should i do?
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Wer W
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 Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 12:05 am Post subject: Ive lost my virginity, what should i do? |
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| You see im 18 years old this year, i have a boyfriend who is the same age though he's very immature and average looking, but his been with me for a long time. However, he doesnt know how to make a girl special and i think i might be clinging onto him for the sake of it.However, recently i met another guy through a friend. He's a successful guy, 27 years old and very charming and good looking. He asked me out for a date and i was just too tempted. On the date, he showered me with gifts and stuff. I went out with him a few times and he would always pick me up from school with his car, making my frens envious. Hes a very sweet talker too smth my boyfren doesn’t have.Ok, after sometime,he asked me to his apartment as it was his birthdae. I went up and we had a candlelight dinner and drank wine. After awhile, I started to get tipsy and he brought me to his room and then did it with me. It was my first time.Ok now back to my current boyfriend, actually his been pestering me for sex for a long time, but I refused. This time I gave it to him cause whats the point of not doing so when I already lost my virginity. Now im afraid I might lose both of them. |
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Johnny
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| Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 12:08 am Post subject: |
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| well you did cheat on your boyfriend.and cheatings still cheating even if you are drunk |
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Smile Leh!
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| Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 12:10 am Post subject: |
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| the 27 year old dude may be experienced at this kind of candlelight dinner-wine-bedroom-de-flower stuff.he may have some disease - he may have passed it to you - you may have passed it to your fren - now the doctors and hospitals and pharmacies will be laughing all the way to the bank...bank...bank... |
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mac_fixit
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| Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 12:10 am Post subject: |
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| Stick with your original trusted BF rather than the "smooth tallker" who probably does that to all the girls he meets.You are only 18 and he is 27 which means he has had PLENTY of practice. |
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Nora83
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| Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 12:15 am Post subject: |
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| you shouldnt have sex at the 1st place until you are ready. make up your mind which guy you really want to be with. but anyway you already cheated your current boyfriend... there's no need to be with a guy who only wants sex. but if you love having sex and attentions with guys then why not be a whore. |
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k4k07
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| Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 12:20 am Post subject: |
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| dude u fkd up hard ey..if ur holdin onto ur bf for a reason u dnt no, stop lyin 2 u n him. break it off and if this older guys where u wana go think about it, he filled u with wine took advantage of it and had sex wid u AND it was ur first time...by the sounds of it ur in the middle of something only u can decide in the end. go with wat u want the most but let the other 1 go or ur jus hurting them worse.my opinion break up wid ur bf and giv urself time 2 decide wat u want so u cant b hurtin n e 1. |
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ummm...
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| Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 12:21 am Post subject: |
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| ok...heres the deal...dont talk to that 27 year old. to get you tipsy for your first time of having sex is a little bit imature and he sounds kinda like a jerk. i have only ever approved of a few relationships with that large of an age difference...and that was because the guy was part of the girl's life for a while before actually looking at her in a sexual way. Look its nice to meet older guys becuase they know whats up...they know how to trewat a girl to make her feel good and happy (even if his intentions are not good). They learned from having girlfriends mold them or break up with them for being stupid. so your 18 year old bf is clueless abotu how to treat a girl...you ahev to let him knwo what you want and what you need in a realtionships and if he doesnt try then hes not worth it. you will find guys that are willing to do more for girls...and soem guys that jsut dont get it and need a little bit of a push in the right direction. lastly...ok so you have had sex with 2 guys...id leave the older guy and never tlak to him again...no matter how much fun it mgiht be. youll get hurt and used...plsu it never works at this age...and if he really cared he would have been less sneaky and wouldnt have given you wine, or at least enough wine to get you drunk.as for your bf...if he leaves you...i dont blame him...but hey dont be too upset. youll meet tons of great guys that can treat you just as well as the 27 year old only better. they may not be as smooth and cunning...but they will care and thats worth so much more.oh one more thing...dont use the philosophy "well ive already done it once...whats the point in saying no now..." i did that and trust me the numbers can stack up. you look back and regret is so much. if i were you id leave both and try for something brand new...look you know what you want...obviously somone that is closer to your age and caring but as smooth and sweet as the older guy...so look at guys a few years older than you and keep your eyes open. and while your single...enjoy! |
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