How to get over this girl?

johnny212 · Yahoo User

Alright over the course of the past year, ive been becoming really good friends with this girl at work. (btw im 19 and its a movie theater job). I never really thought of her in any way besides a friendship, and she had a kid and a boyfriend as well. I really never thought about it, but then as time went on and months passed...i stopped seeing a bf (the daddy), and thought maybe he was out of the picture. I started noticing signs from her that she seemed interested. She was always giving me looks, or doing nice things for me, texting me all the time...getting upset when i dont tell her bye etc. So i try to get further with the friendship, to see whats up..we start really getting along and doing things outside of work just for fun with some other people. Then I ask her out to dinner and a movie on valentines day, yet we both got sick so it was moved to the week after. At the time i wasnt sure if it was a date or not but we got together..i gave her a little gift...and we had a really...we really had a great time. After the night ends, she texts me telling me how great of a night she had.She comes out and says "You're the one person that can always make me happy"and says that next time its her treat. I txt her back in awe, and tell her that i like her. No response....she txts me back the next day first with just some info about her day blah blah. Time progresses, turns out the boyfriends not really away from the picture. He then asks her to marry him. Turns out shes been talking about me saying i like her, to one of her friends...and saying that she didnt mean to lead me on etc.I think she liked me. she told me that her at the bf had been seperated for a while, but she doesnt tell other people the same story that she tells me.Anyways, i had this long talk with her one night about it and i told her everything i felt. i told her i wouldnt make it weird if she didnt like me back. etc.Well time has passed, and i still cant get over her in my mind. Always think..about her still. Im trying to preserve the friendship right now, but everytime we hang out i fall for her again.Everytime she excludes me outa something for fear of it being weird , i feel horrible about myself.I wanna keep her as one of my best friends, but i want to get over her.What should i do?---like, her, her sisters, and i have plans to go to eat and the movies this coming week. Im trying to slowly move back up to the point where her and I can do things again , without it being weird for her. But however at the same time...each time i try to do this...like i said i fall for her all over again.I really like her, and i still cant fathom why i was put through that. I really wish there was hope for a relationship, but i know part of me doesnt b/c im surely not ready to "father" her kid....or at least i dont think. However that aside, i want to get her outa my mind while also remaining great friends.Thats practically impossible.