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gg55
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 Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 2:35 am Post subject: how do i show my girlfriend i care?? |
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| how do i she my girlfriend i care about her?? i care for a lot, we have been together for 9 months now, i tell here a lot i care about her a lot. but she does not believe me i have to prove it some how, but how?? girls how do u know you bf cares about you?? by actions not words??cos words are not working for me, and now she will not let me touch her or kiss her at all cos she told me she thinks this is all i want her for to touch and kiss and try to get into her pants and its not true, i really do care about her. so how do i prove it??i buy her gifts, expensive ones too, like every 2 months, perume i bought her a diamond necklace, teddy bears lots of stuff. i even buy her parents and sister gifts too. but i have never bought her flowers should i try this?? i have not because she sees my gift as a futher attempt to touch kiss her etc. she thinks thats all i want her for.we talk but its hard sometimes, to find intrestin things, but i need to prove i care sum how, but how?? thanks.i need to show her i care, without words or gifts, it does not work, i really want to be with her. what can i do? by actions?? she always says actions speak louder than words, thats why i buy her expensive gifts thats a action right?? it show i think about her right?? |
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typewriter.tip.tip.tip
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 2:40 am Post subject: |
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| Instead of buying expensive gifts, just tell her how you feel. If she can't believe it, there's something wrong with her. Don't try to buy her love. |
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Overcast Kid
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 2:40 am Post subject: |
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Bake her a cake.Decorate it up, and deliver it to her house.If a guy did this for me, I'd be so surprised and pleased. It really is the sweetest thing. |
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Kmburlee
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 2:43 am Post subject: |
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| with your heart |
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loverbirds
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 2:44 am Post subject: |
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| you already pissed her off...relax...how old is she???try spending time with her that involves movies romance like walking just holding hands but keep your private in your pants dont rub her or touch her in that way play with her hair without trying to get in her pants try doing all of this and going home expecting nothing not even a kiss or any affection leading to clothes off!!! in other words she wants you for once to think with the right head!!! |
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andif
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 2:46 am Post subject: |
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| If I were with a guy who bought me that much *stuff*, I would not trust his motives.Do you *listen* to her and respond to what she is saying when you're together? Do you remember some things a couple of days later? Us women sometimes need a sign that, while you may not be squishy and emotional, there is at least *some* kind of connection there.Please note, however, that all women are different and this may not apply to your situation at all.In some cases, you may have one of those women who is never satisfied, or is indeed playing with you.Whichever it is, I wish you luck. |
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Janey
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 2:47 am Post subject: |
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| I agree it's not about buying her lovea few gifts here and there show you carebut don't overdo itwhen you go out are you considerate? like asking where and what she likes to do, do you show consideration to how she is feeling and does she do the same for youor maybe she accepts your gifts and gives nothing back?have a good soul search as to how much you are investing in the relationship (not just money but time etc) and how much she is giving?if it's not working think about calling it offdon't waste yourself on someone who is never satisfiedno matter what you do -such people men or women do existopen your eyes and look after yourself |
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Clifford L
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 3:24 am Post subject: |
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| Take a direct interest in her life and what she does. Remember things she told you, problems she is facing, things she heard, comments about her family, relationships with friends. Then at the appropriate time, ask about it, show genuine concern. She needs to see that you care about her life and what happens around her. If she is not feeling well, remember to ask her how she's doing when you call, tell her to rest well, if she's taking medication, set an alarm in your phone when its time, den call her and ask if she remembered to take her medication. If her mum hurt herself, and your gf mentioned it to you, ask how her mum is doing; ask if there was anything you could do to help.Another thing is, have you seen her angry? Seen her cry? Seen her sad? all are all you have seen of her is her happy self, always smiling, and the other side that says you dont love her? Do you know her in and out so much so that she feels attached to you? Almost like. . . "this guy knows so much about me. . . I can't afford to lose him!"That's how i feel. Hope it helps you. . . =) |
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egytökéletesember
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 4:30 am Post subject: |
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| instead.. show her: SHE careswhen she realize this, she will be forever yours |
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