polite way not to ask for large wedding gifts.?

duckie · Yahoo User

The audacity of brides always shocks me!While I appreciate that you don't want to offend anyone, it is incredibly rude to even consider how to ask for "this instead of that."You'll just have to deal with shipping everything, or return it if you don't want it. There is no polite way to ask for gift cards/money over other things. If you don't register for anything, you'll probably get money/gift cards anyway (or a lot of crap you really don't want) but it is extremely poor etiquette to mention any of what you included in your question anywhere!