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Its me!
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 Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:23 am Post subject: It still bugs me after 2 yrs!? |
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| DH and went back home to visit family two years ago. A good friend of mine and her daughter spent a lot of time with my husband and I. We felt a little bad for her because she is a single mom and its hard for her. Therefore, we've offered to pay for a couple lunches and stuff. Well one night, my husband and I, my friend and her brother went out to dinner. On our way, a lady was selling roses and I was a bit upset with my DH at a time (and I don't even remember why now), but he bought me a rose but he also bought one or my friend. I can see that he bought it because of not making my friend feel bad and left out! But at the same time, it lost the uniqueness. My DH is the type that will always get flowers for his mom, my mom for Mother's days, buy me huge roses and gifts for Valentines and thats the way he is.Now, it may be a bit selfish but as his wife I wanted to be the only one to get a rose from him and its lost its purpose now! I still think about it at times...Help!here is why it still sometimes bothers me. After all my husband and I did for my friend, she went created a fake SN and tried to say how she a local woman that my dh is cheating on me. I know my dh and I found out it was her and don't talk to her anymore at all. Her thing was she was kidding and had nothing better to do! To me, that was sneaky and a real friend doesn't do that. SHe lives overseas. Does that clarify it now?Perhaps, she thought that because my husband gave her a flower for her not to feel left out, she had a chance with him or something... |
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Raspberry
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| Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:27 am Post subject: |
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| You are being selfish. Your husband is a good thoughful man. Focus on that and not the moment that you felt like he took away from you.Good luck! |
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Molly B
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| Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:27 am Post subject: |
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| Let it go! The rose is even dead already! I have never even gotten a rose from my husband and I am not as bitter as you!!!!!Think about how lucky you are to have a kind husband. A rose dies, kidness lives forever. |
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Nita R
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| Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:27 am Post subject: |
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| seriously? get real! that rose wilted a long time ago. it's not like he went out and bought her a valentine's day diamond necklace or took her on a trip on your wedding anniversary! at least he didn't buy her flowers behind your back!he sounds like a sweet guy. does he do anything for you that he doesn't do for other women? focus on those things instead. |
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Emanon
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| Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:28 am Post subject: |
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| Get a life! |
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Heather D
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| Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:28 am Post subject: |
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| You're being a BABY! You should feel lucky to have a thoughtful and caring husband. |
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Cyclist 2300
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| Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:29 am Post subject: |
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| get over it....... already......... why do you let something so simple destroy the moment, and the future?so he also got her a flower..... big deal.didn't you say he gets you huge ones for valentines..... if that don't make you feel special.... nothing will.get a strong cup of coffee..... and WAKE UP. |
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PoBr€ Di@bL@
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| Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:30 am Post subject: |
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| Wow lady, get over it. He did a very nice thing and lifted someones spirit by doing so. You know the reason he did it so let it go. I'm sure there were more flowers for you after that. Replace that bad memory with the good ones. |
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trueeee the Crazy Dominic
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| Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:31 am Post subject: |
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| Is your life so boring that two years later you are still obsessing over something so stupid?I seriously have no words for you. It's because of women like you that romance and chivalry are dying. |
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stncldmufknkilr
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| Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:31 am Post subject: |
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| YOU HAVE GOT TO BE FCUKING KIDDING ME!!!!!GROW UP!!!!Wait, I just had an epiphany. I think your husband may have given your friend more than a rose. |
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Forlorn Hope
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| Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:31 am Post subject: |
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| you need to get over yourself... you are a little selfish and need to grow up...your husband was doing a nice thing for both of you, and didn't want to cause any resentment...but all you can do is complain about you not being felt to be special??? that is so out of whack... |
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Owen E
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| Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:32 am Post subject: |
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| Get over it your ebing pathetic he knew your frined was going througha tough time and he thought the gesture would be nice and maybe brighten her day. You sound selfish and inmature grow-up maybe you should have bought your friend a flower or a plant and made her day. It sounds like you have a nice husband he was trying to cheer your friend up that is all. |
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Petunia
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| Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:33 am Post subject: |
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| Get over it!!!You ought to thank the stars that you have a good man. Be thankful and Love him, he's a keeper!!!Your lucky, some woman only dream of a man like him.Yes! You are selfish... A flower is a flower, He's a romantic, embrace it and Love him for it... He's not selfish right, that's probably why he has you. |
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Marie
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| Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:34 am Post subject: |
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| Such a shame to let one little rose ruin your whole life and relationship. He has probably forgotten it by now and so did she.Like you said he just did it so she wouldn't feel left out. And that little gesture from someone kind probably gave her the courage and confidence to meet other guys. Your husband is a very giving man and that is rare to find. Most guys forget the flowers as soon as the ink is dried on the marriage license.So believe that your relationship is unique in the way that he loves you and respects his mom. There are plenty of women out there that would trade places with you in a heartbeat. So let it go. If you can't let go of the little things you will never survive the bigger ones. You are both good people to have helped a young mom feel better. I am sure she appreciated it very much. |
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Ms Pollyanna
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| Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 9:36 am Post subject: |
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| Why are you holding on to such meaningless things, if you ever want to have a 30 year anniversary with your husband i suggest to stop your stupid behaver and right now. Its women like you that lose their husbands to younger women after many years, because if you don't think that your childish attitude bothers him then your fooling yourself. start behaving like an adult and give your husband some credit for being a sincere and sympathetic man! isn't that the reason why you fell in love with him? your being a very selfish women and you better change now before its to late! |
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