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sweetie813
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 Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:27 am Post subject: My boyfriend Smokes!? |
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| my boyfriend smokes pretty much everyday and it doesnt really bother that he does but it does bother me when he disses me to go smoke with his bro or friends! we live about an hour and a half away from each other and im the only one who makes the trip each week to go see him! all i ask for is just to spend time together when im with him! for valentines day i bought him gifts and he didnt get me anything not even a card he said he didnt have any money! but he did buy some smoke which really aggravated me because i bought him something! am i being to petty about this situation? |
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~~~Lydia~~~
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:31 am Post subject: |
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| you might want to re-evaluate your relationship...... |
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PJ
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:31 am Post subject: |
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| No. It sounds like a pretty one-sided relationship, with you doing all the giving. Dump him. Find someone closer to home that treats you right. |
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wrestlerguy125
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:31 am Post subject: |
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| it sounds like he cares more about smokeing than he cares about you |
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chaminda l
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:32 am Post subject: |
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| Don't visit him next round...its his turn...if he doen't come over then move on.... |
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Mrs. cutie
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:32 am Post subject: |
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| I am sorry but broke up with him first because he not in to your relationship like you are and tell him to stop because smoke is bad like say I want our future to be bright with each other and stuff. but I would never like a boyfriend who smoke and drink or does anything bad. |
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Discreet
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:33 am Post subject: |
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| no you are not,drugs are taking over.... |
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dbrh_soto
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:33 am Post subject: |
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| No you not being petty, he can't afford to buy you a gift,because cigarette today is so expensive. He is being cheap you got to go a hr to visit him. You should tell him about hisself, he need to know how you feeling about this. |
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ksm95610
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:33 am Post subject: |
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| he sounds like a loser and it sounds to me like hes taking advantage of you. I would consider leaving him and try to find a man that respects you and comes to see you as much as you go see him. if he can buy some smokes then he can atleast buy you a card or something! |
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SMPA14
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:35 am Post subject: |
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| No you are not being petty.Its not the amount of money spent its the thought. I'd love a $3.00 card as long as I know my man picked it out. Heck....make a card and tell me you had no money. But some guys just aren't the gift and card giving types. Ya know? I feel you on that, but that isn't your biggest issues.In my experience a guy who 'smokes' is lazy in relationships. Plus do you really want to be in a relationship where you are always doing the work? In good relationships you meet half way and each person does something to make the relationship work. It sounds to me (and I amnot trying to make you feel bad) like he just doesn't care enough. Is that what you want? |
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nekochanhan
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:35 am Post subject: |
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| He doesnt seem like a nice guy at all, i think you sud leave him and find sumone better. No girl sud cme second to a pack of cigsits just not onx |
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cherry lips
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:37 am Post subject: |
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| Dump the jerk. He didnt have money to buy u a card but he can afford cigars. Did u know that his smoking could be harmful to your body? If he loves u hell stop. |
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~3R!c@~
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:39 am Post subject: |
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| tell him how you feel! hes being a dumb guy..he prolly dont see what hes doing is wrong |
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maurette2003
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:48 am Post subject: |
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| A relationship is a partnership. This means that both should be making the effort for the relationship to work. From what you said, you are giving 100%, and he may give 10% if he doesn't have anything better to do. I'm assuming when you say he smokes, that you aren't talking about cigarettes or cigars. This habit gets expensive if you smoke everyday. If he can afford that, why couldn't he at least spend $3 on a card for you? I could be wrong, but it sounds like he is just using you for a little fun when you go see him, and that he isn't fully into a relationship with you. You should talk with him, tell him how you feel. As his girlfriend, you should not feel like you are last on his list, and see what he says. If he just keeps making up excuses, you'll have your answer. I have found that it is better to be alone and lonely, then it is to be with someone and be lonely. If he can't put any effort into this relationship, dump him, heal your wounds then find someone deserving. Believe me, I've had a few b/f's like you described, and it isn't worth your time or pain to put up with it. I finally found someone who is deserving, and puts as much effort into our relationship that I do. Makes me wonder why I spent so much time with losers. |
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Yasmine
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| Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 9:03 am Post subject: |
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| you should dump him, he is so selfish, you definently deserve someone better than him. He doesn't even care about you, don't you see! . . . more selfrespect and you will be fine |
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